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by - MojoThunder - on February 16th, 2010
LUBE!!!! FOREPLAY!!!! RELAX!!!!
by loverlbboy on February 16th, 2010
Don't do anal before a couple of years !!
Normal people shouldn't do anal... it's a thing paid actors do on the screen
by MarieChantal on February 26th, 2010
i was introduced on my honeymoon. on my back holding my knees to my chest and then spreading the knees open. a very exposed position. first he touched my clitoris until i was crazy and then put a finger in and out slowly, giving lots of encouraging talk, telling me how good i was doing and coaching breathing exercises. pushing out while he is pushing in is very important and very hard to do when you are very excited. then two fingers. he moved them around alot trying to massage and loosen. when he put his penis in, it felt 10 times bigger than two fingers. i repeat, pushing out helps The first part was the hardest because the head is so big and was giving pain, so he would stop pushign but it is important that he not take it out even though the head is not al the way in yet, wait for the pain to subside - you are probably tensing up- keep pushing out like you are trying to have a bowel movement have him rub your clit and put his fingers in your vagina at this time, that stimulation will distract you while the pain starts to subside, a vaginal orgasm is what will help you let him enter the rest of the way that this point. Once he is in, it is important that you let him take it all the way out and reenter several times...this is what helps to loosen the muscle and you will start to enjoy.
by WillieWiggledink on April 4th, 2010
Assholes were designed for exit, not entry. You are going against its intended purpose when you stick something up there. Therefore, take things very slowly if you want to engage in anal sex. Don't insist on penetration by the penis right away. It might even take 3 or 4 practice sessions before you can accomplish it the first time.
Some people have suggested starting by having a finger inserted into your ass. A butt plug is also something to consider. They come in several shapes and sizes, so you might even want to pick up 2 or 3 of them. You might then want to try a dildo. (Use a condom on a butt plug or dildo for sanitary reasons.) Don't try a penis until you are comfortable with having these other things in your ass.
As others have said, use plenty of lubrication. Astroglide is a common lubricant.
by Lucindaoffthecuff on February 24th, 2010
Be sure you havew considered the various different positions that anal can be performed in because we often think of the one "classic" position as the only setup for anal sex. You can find information about anal sex positions and recommendations for specific "players" by googling.
by drtgrl on February 20th, 2010
lube, lube, lube!!!
by BrownEye Insertion Specialists on February 16th, 2010
MoJo - is part right -- LUBE, LUBE, LUBE - Forplay - LUBE, LUBE, LUBE, relax, bit more lube if needed then slow, easy, relax again, deep breaths. Make sure the FuckEE - controls the speed and rhythm. The better it is the first time is, the better the 2nd,... 3rd... 4th..... time will be for both. The anal receiver needs to call the shots until it becomes much more comfortable. Down the road it can be more one sided, it that is the goal, or during roll play.
Are you going to be the giver or receiver?
by Pintapride on February 23rd, 2010
I am guessing that you are a young one.....
Lube is VERY important.
Foreplay, Build up to actual full penetration slowly. Start with gentle insertion of a finger and then two.
Relax.
TRUST is very important.. Being the receiver, you need to be able to make sure that the giver will ease up when required and not to GO AT IT like a rampaging bull. That will come with time and experience. If you say STOP then the giver MUST obey.
Above all........ENJOY a lifetime of anal sex....become a giver as well......
Ladies: How does it feel when you have anal sex in comparison with vaginal sex? By that, what literally "feels" different?
by SkulblakaShurtugal on January 20th, 2012
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by Guy559 on January 24th, 2012
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Ladies do you like dp? Are you a three hole gal ass,pussy and mouth at the same time?
by j4fun on January 5th, 2012
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So here is something I don't really understand...
by pixie11479 on January 22nd, 2012
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Whats your favorite position for anal sex and why.
by j4fun on January 5th, 2012
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by TjoeBaxter is Hot Yo on February 16th, 2010
relax, baby ... it's just the tip ...
by - MojoThunder - on February 16th, 2010
Just do it nice and slow sweetie:)
by TjoeBaxter is Hot Yo on February 16th, 2010