My boyfriend still loves his ex-girlfriend. They were each others first sexual partners, and dated for 4 years, but she was awful to him.

Your in college you have tons of opportunity and life ahead. do you want to spend life with someone who loves someone else. set him free to do what he wants and YOU do what you need find love if it was meant to be it will happen. i had a girlfriend in college and after we broke up
cause she was ready to move to the next step i wasn't so we broke up. I've been a million times happier since then and so can you. if he loves you he'll come back ready to be your guy...plus dealing with a live in booty call ain't a good situation for you. run before you get stuck with him getting you pregnant being a single mom is way hard especially for someone still growing up, and yes college is way far from grown up I've been out of college a couple years and i still feel like a kid. so as much as it hurts its better to see the big pic you don't need this

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Go out and meet other people. If he is still in love with his ex then he is no where near ready to be with someone else.

A bit more info, she is still currently living in his house (he is a college student that is having to live with his parents), but is moving out soon. I really really like him, and he feels the same for me, but he is having trouble getting over her. I am willing to give him time, because it is really what he needs to be able to get over her, but what can I do in the meantime to make myself feel better?