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There's a girl at my school who really likes me but she is too shy to even come close.She's so sad all the time and her parents abuse her and dont love her. She's kind of a loner but she is a really nice person.
I want to give her a friendly hug so maybe she wont feel so worthless but Iam afraid that my friends will laugh at me.Iam a caring type of guy that cares about every single person at my school because I have been through a lot myself.
So do you think I should help this girl or leave her suffering?
come on .. u know the answer to this question.. you try and befriend her, if ur friends laugh tell them to stick it ,be strong and show her ur strong enough to stick up for what u wanna do ... but i really think you should befriend her as soon as possible cos if you find out shes killed herself if shes so low in life,,you will always wonder if you could have helped by being a friend.. Where i live, 1 really good caring friend is better than 15 mates that u just hang around with. you could make that difference to her life. and you will feel proud to carry that through ur life knowing you tryed to help a friend in need.. I have a 15 yr old daughter and her friends come here just to talk to me as their parents dont listen, but they all know that im here if they need to talk,i wouldnt want anything to happen to these young girls. so please try x x x x x x
help her and help yourself grow. some kids might laugh but when you look back at them in the years to come, you'll feel sorry for them. there is nothing like helping others, to grow your confidence and sense of self worth. no silly teasing can undo that. besides, you may help the girl to open up to her potential and make a real friend (not the teasing type).
Friends that laugh at you, because you talk to someone else, are NOT your friends!
Just go up to her and say; "Hi, My name is______, may I walk you to your next class?"
Then just ask her her name, Tell her it is a very pretty name, that fits her. Then just smile while you are looking at her face. ( NEVER LOOK DOWN!)
The next move is hers.
If she says ok, then start walking with her, never in front of her, but, beside her.
NEVER TOUCH ON FIRST WALK! Kinda walk slow. She thinks you are just wanting to stay with her, a little longer. And when you get to her next class, just smile and say "Hope to see you around" and turn and walk away. Don't forget to look around at her, just to see if she is looking at you. If she is, then just smile and turn away, and go on to Your class.
Go very slow with a 'shy' girl. If she smiles, even a little, the next time she sees you, smile back. Let nature take it cource, from there.
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Thanks Zoe, I will do my best!
I guess it would be pretty sad if she killed herself and I wanted but couldn't help her. I'd probably blame myself for the rest of my life if she did kill herself.
by Prince of Persia on February 5th, 2010
add me as a friend and if you ever need to talk to somebody about ur problems or about life,i can be very honest,down to earth and you never know i could even help. I do actually think ive stressed it too deep, i didnt want you to blame urself for other peoples choices, u cant carry that burden of what if?? but you can approach her and give her this website and my name on here and i will accept her and if i could help her,it might be easy for her to open up to another female,just in case she dosnt open up to you... but u are a very caring person to even be bothered to think about her problems..now add me and get her to add me too.!!!! your a good lad.x
by zoe32forever on February 5th, 2010
I added you as a friend =)
by Prince of Persia on February 5th, 2010