i am 14 years old and have been in an online relationship for six months now and it just feels right, can it really work?

Honey, you haven't met this person yet. Whether you like it or not your age is also a factor. Be online friends but don't try to base your whole future on an unseen person. Someone has to come up with some serious cash before you two can even meet.

go for it if u really like the girl u should follow ur heart and dnt worry wat any of ur friends say put ur happyness before theres and if they fall out with you dnt care as what i always say love comes first ur friends may not alwasy be around bt ur gf will i really hope my information helps yhuu

glad to hear it.
srsly if she makes you happy and keeps you out of depresso mode then you don't let her go.

It's probably a preditior rawr

I've just read your comment about being depressed.
Don't care what people say-you guys can make this work.If you love her which I really believe you do-you'll find a way.Have faith and don't stop trying. I know what you're going through. I mean I've had long distance relationships and been super depressed like and it's so difficult.But don't give up.

okay so there is a bit more info: Before i met her i was seriously depressed and basically wanted to kill myself, shes given me self confidence and taught me i was a good person, now say im too young or say its too much work but i am prepared to give everything i have to attempt to make this work, so maybe one day you will see our story somewhere, of how we managed to maintain this relationship through the distance and carried on forever, i made this decision after a lot of thinking im not dumb and well thanks for giving your opinions

Sorry but it won't work. Long distance relationships are hard to make work even for adult couples that have actually spent lots of time together.These type of relationships take so much work and being together from time to time is important. Online people are different than they are in person. I have had lots of internet friends. Some I never wanted to speak to again once we met in person and I am sure some probably felt the same about. Another factor is your age. It is very unlikely that you can both stay true to each other since you are so young. There is so much life going on around you that you will both miss out on by committing to a LDR at 14. Stay good friends with her but don't plan on it being forever.

anything is possible.
if you really want something in this life you'll both be prepared to make it work and if you don't then you know it wasn't meant to be.of course it's sad but it's true.
age is just a number.it has nothing to do with love.age should not matter.
wishyouwell(:

if you're so sure, why are you writing to ask about our opinon?!

you're still young, you've got a long way to go... don't lose heart and wish you luck.

Right now, i am in the same situation you are. I have an online relationship too. He's 21 and i'm 19. I met him over a year ago now. And since we've met we have literally talked everyday. I know that seems crazy to some people, spending that much time talking with a stranger and many even think it's desperate. But when i met him, it seemed like everything just fell into place. We have a lot in common. We could talk for hours online and it seemed to go by so fast. I fell in love with him. He is my best friend and i am still in love with him today. He's always there for me, more than any other person has ever been. I have yet to meet him. But someday, we are going to. And i really cannot wait to see him, and have him hold me in his arms for the first time. It's something i look forward to every day.

From experience, having a long distance, online relationship is hard. really hard. You're going to have to work really hard to make it work. Because with online relationships it's all about talking. That's all you have. And sometimes it's a struggle to always find something to talk about.
It's also a struggle to want that one person so much, it hurts sometimes. It's hard to not have them there when you need a hug, or when you wish you could just simply cuddle and not have to say anything for once. The fact that you want something so bad is going to get worse. At times it's so overwhelming. But for me, i'm holding on. Because i really do love him. There have been many times where we've wanted to end it, stop talking, and go our separate ways. But if you love that person enough, and they are what you want, then that will be enough to hold on.

If you really think this is worth it. If she is worth it, then go for it. But given the age, i'd try to just be her friend. If you're focusing on a relationship together then once both of you get older there are chances that you'll each find someone else, then it's going to be harder to deal with it. You may even consider stopping it all together. But as friends first, you may not ever have to stop talking. And over time, if it's really meant to be, you can maybe even end up together.

To answer your question simply, yes. It can work. It really can.

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Hehe 14....I am 20 and my gf 18
We are together for almost 4 years...
We are both not very poor...but poor enough
A ticket to her costs around 500 euros
We also met online...i camed twice to her...now it should be a 3rd time....
Having such a relation is super hard and you must always keep yourself busy
Plus she may say now that she would wish to be with you for the long term...but many said before they change...you cant really know if she will want to leave her parents and go to you...or somewhere else for ever...and just visit them from time to time.
As i said it is very hard...but in the end...if you two will actually be able to live together in peace it will be superbe for both of you. But its a HUGE emotional and maybe even financial risk you are willing to take.

The best thing you could do in my opinion is to get a girl next to you as fast as you can and remain with your online friend only best friends and try to not talk more then once at 2 days^^or a week if possible.
And also try to talk to her about this too....allthow it may not be always a good ideea.

So if you really love her and you dont wanna end up like me:P
Keep talking with her...if possible once a week and get a girl there asap :P
Ok probably she wont like it probably you wont eighter...but later if it will be the case at least u wont regret...

This i never tryed...i never had the will to do it...but if i would start it all over again this is what i would want to do. Good Luck

i believe if you really love this girl and she really loves you back then you don't need advice. even though you are only 14 i feel like age shouldn't matter. i am 17 and my boyfriend/fiance just turned 20, he is my life because iif it weren't for him i wouldn't be alive today. he is helping me take care of my son who isn't even biologicaolly his but he feels like if he was there with me all the way through my pregnancy he is the father and i won't take that joy from him. and we are getting married on my 18th birthday next year. but like i was saying if you guys really care for each other don't give up keep trying to make this as good as possible. have hoope and faith in everything you do and God will work things out in ways you can't imagine. he has done it for me and he will do it for you, just pray about it. GOOD LUCK! I'M PRAYING FOR YOU!!!!

I hate to tell you this, but you do not know everything about her and sometimes even when you get married and stay married all you life...you still may not know everything about your partner!! That's just the way people are.
Be friends with this girl "first"! For as long as it takes to meet her...don't go any further until you can meet her and have a "real" relationship with her...no matter your ages!
You had better really think about this relationship...you could actually be falling in love with a nasty old man/pervert and this person could be right next door to you and you wouldn't even know it! This "girl" could be sending you fake photos, even! Be very, very careful...that's why you should take your time...a long time with this!

Oh, sure, sure...

~snicker, snicker~

tbhhh,
i dont think this will work for you Sweetcheeks.
srsly, think about it. you do not know what this person might be like in real life, they may be portraying themselves as a better person than what they actually are. which will result in you getting hurt in the long run.

I hope you figure out what to do.
and also...
cybersex, is safe sex:)

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your 14? it's never true love at that age! just be friend donts make it a love relationship, and who knows who it really is? now ask yourself that!!

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14yrs. old is TOO YOUNG to "plan" anything! You've got a CHILDHOOD ahead of you and you're EONS apart from this young lady! Seriously. . . . . . . . . .NO! It's NOT going to work from a "practical" point of view!