ANSWERS: 10
  • Let me get this straight. Your friends SAY he cheats and you actually DID cheat? This relationship is certainly not off to a good start. Of course things won't be the same after you hit him with a bomb like that. That is to be expected. He may just be having grudge sex with you so he can milk the situation for what it's worth. Best bet is to part ways and start your next relationship out on better footing. Cheating is never good and it seems like there is no trust between the two of you. Cut your losses and move on. It's not worth the drama. Hope this helps.
  • On the 2nd day, you were going out together, you really didn't have a relationship yet, so in my view, that wasn't cheating; it was, however, poor judgment if you were anticipating that the 'relationship' would blossom into something more than casual. Your boyfriend did not yet have the right to expect exclusivety in the relationship unless that was already agreed to. When you told him about having sex with another fellow, he got the message that you viewed sex predominantly as a recreational activity, not an intimacy thing. So now he is following your lead and using the relationship mostly for sex. If this suits you, fine; if not, move on.
  • I agree wih Andersen, and if you cheated on him the SECOND DAY, he MUST not have been cute enough for you to look forward to havin sex with him in the first place. Unless you ALREADY had sex with him BEFORE you started dating, in which case I, and HE, think you're just a big o'l hoe. Try harder next time.
  • i think u should let him go cuz i dont think that was really love may be u liked each other but infact u both were not qualified for each other u cheated on him if u really loved him u wouldnt do tht n if he really loves u he wouldnt make u feel tht all he want is sex cuz its supposed to be inside a lovers relationship called MAKING LOVE so i guess u should hit the road a start a new pure relation with ur all will hun and wish u the best of luck
  • Just have sex with him and confront him about your friends acusations
  • u dnt no if he as cheated but u have, u might just be a bit ermmm paranoid coz u cheated on him and u think his goin to 2 do it back. you cant go around sayin his a cheat unless uno for a fact
  • just use him the same way he's using you... while you find someone who is worth it
  • Let him go. Sounds way too complicated if it's only been two months.
  • how does you friend now he is cheating on you........how do you cheat on someone 2 days nto it....
  • How do you cheat on someone when there is no commitment? Unless you had one on the first day you went out. Seems like sex came pretty early. No one seems concerned about stds or promiscuity on either side in this scenario.

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