I'm interested in sleeping with a man 20 yrs older? I am 19 and still a virgin. Will I regret this though I don't see this going anywhere?

Hmmm, why do you suppose a man 20 years your senior would want to have sex with you? Because he loves you? Because he respects you? Because he sees a future in the relationship? Or because he's a fan of internet porn that has convinced him that its somehow more exciting to have sex with someone who is "barely legal?"

Only you can make that call. But I'd suggest you consider it if you don't want to be left feeling used.

ask yourself why? Are you doing this to demonstrate your own maturity?

I have talked with a lot of young girls who do this. In general, these girls feel shame and regret after the fact. Many of them say they did it to feel older and more mature. But once it was done, they felt used, shame and embarssment because tey gave themself to an old man when they could have given themself to somene their own age.

You will only have the beauty of youth for so long. Share it with another person who has the beauty of youth. You wont regret that, but when you are 35, you WILL regret having wasted your youth on a POM!

I am very prejudiced about this subject. Sleeping with anyone old enough to be a parent for me is a no no. Do you really want to have sex with your dad? If this guy wouldn't mind having sex with someone young enough to be his daughter I'd be very very wary of him. Just my opinion. You are old enough to do what you want and I remind you I am extremely prejudiced so my opinion is absolutely and totally subjective. Happy Sunday to you! :)

I agree with the above answers. That dirty old man just wants to use you and he's taking advantage of your innocence. I think the age of consent should be raised to 21 because of perverts like this 40 year old!

Save your innocence and virginity for marriage or at least a long term boyfriend your age. You will be hurt less that way.

Do you care for this man? If so, then you probably shouldn't sleep with him, because you say you don't see the relationship going anywhere. You might fall for him and suffer a broken heart if he doesn't feel the same way.

If, OTOH, you don't have more than a casual interest in him and you just like the idea of being with an experienced man for your first time, you could try it. Personally, I think one's first time should be with a significant other (not necessarily a spouse), and not just a casual encounter. But it's your call. Do what makes you feel comfortable.