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Sometimes we don't realize what we have until it's gone. Too often, we ignore signs that our relationships are in trouble, and a breakup occurs. It may not be too late to win back the love of your life if you make a few changes and try some relationship-healing strategies. Think about why the relationship failed. What did your husband complain about, or what things did you ignore during the marriage? Did you let yourself go? Did you nag him too much? Did you have trust issues that you didn't work on? Were you too clingy or suspicious? Be honest with yourself. Can you change those things about yourself? Was your husband right and you never really listened, or was it really better that the relationship failed? Give your husband a call or email him. Let him know that you've been doing a lot of thinking and can see the mistakes you've made and that you truly want to make things work. Although he may not be receptive, if there are still feelings of love between the two of you, he'll keep in contact. Make the phone call or email short and let him know you still love him. Now spend time working on yourself. What would you like to change? What do you need to release from your past? What can you do to better yourself and show your husband that you're a changed person? You don't want to be fake and act like someone you're not simply to win your ex back, but you want to be the best person you can be for yourself. The more confident and happy you are, the more attractive you'll be. Wait a few weeks, but keep in contact with your husband, calling or emailing only once a day or every other day and keeping the contact short. If he seems open to it, see if he'll meet you for coffee. Seeing him in person will give you the opportunity to reconnect and talk. Making it a coffee date, and not dinner or drinks, is safe and non-committal. If you do meet your husband for a coffee date, make sure you look your best. More than how you dress, you want to show him that you're healthy, determined to make amends and open to intimacy. Tell him you love him and miss him, but don't be overbearing or accusatory. Let him know that you hope you can work things out and that you're doing all you can to be the type of person he deserves. This isn't a guarantee that you can reunite with your husband, but you'll be giving it the best chance you can. Every relationship must consist of respect and loyalty, with both sides willing to listen and work on the marriage. Divorce Busting: Why Should I Be The One To Change?After the Breakup
Contact Your Husband
Making Changes
Go On a Date
Look and Act Your Best
If your husband seems open to seeing you again, remain friendly and make plans to meet again in a few days. It may take a few meetings before he relaxes and sees that you truly want to make the marriage work.No Guarantees
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by Twisted Taco on February 18th, 2010
Lots and lots of oral sex
by Twisted Taco on February 8th, 2010
Put some peanut butter on the door and see if he comes back
by anita1 on February 10th, 2010
make him wish he"d never left,,,,, get out there start loving yourself get to know that sexy part of you treat yourself as he would have done , get your hair done do youself up and be seen looking your best at all times, he will wont to know,,, trust me if he has feelings for you he will come round wanting to know who you are making an effort for,,,coz he will be kicking his self for walking away go for it xx
by Patti jo on November 12th, 2010
A Ex is a Ex for a reason , figure out why you split up to begin with and then go from there , just don't be a fool !!
by QEDqed on April 25th, 2010
tears usually work. crawling on the floor helps.
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by amberlynnsween on December 23rd, 2010
well why do you want him back? Why is he gone? What made him leave?
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by Ayla80 on May 27th, 2011
By a book called "Why Men Love Bitches" by Sherry Argov.
by Smiley makes a new friend on August 15th, 2010
Don't.
by manjunathds on April 27th, 2010
Honest communication and changes in your approach to relationship.
http://blog.abhayamedia.com/getting-back-together-with-your-ex-after-divorce/
by cedx on February 14th, 2010
I wish I was in HIS shoes
by liasantana on June 4th, 2010
remind him of why he fell in love with you and remind him of the promise he made. Be there with arms wide open, forgiving, loving, and ask for forgiveness yourself. But most of all :
http://www.ewtn.com/devotionals/novena/joseph.htm
trust me, it works
by Esteban-- Smartest Pumpkin on July 26th, 2010
Pay the fines and they will release him. You know that he shouldn't keep library books out past the due date.
by leonel123 on October 29th, 2010
hold a gun to his head
by Gen.ButtNaked on November 17th, 2010
Why now!? Ask and answer that question and if they are for reasons other then; financial security and his winning of the lottery, it may work!! Love is BS, because if you really loved him, you never would have left him in the first place, so don't say love, that doesn't get it anymore!!
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