Do men masturbate while watching porn, or after? And why? I'm curious as to how these options differ. Do guys ever think of nothing?

As for me, I have a girlfriend, but men can get horny out of nowhere and for no reason whatsoever sometimes and if no one is around to get them off, or get me off, I'll watch porn. However, i get off while watching it and I wouldn't think much of this scenario because after I'm done, I'm done and if I have someone there to get me off then I won't watch it. But if he watches that much and masturbates afterwards then my guess is he is addicted to porn and there's not much you can do to stop it, unfortunately. I personally can't relate And I'm not your boyfriend nor do I know him so don't set this in stone, but in the cases I've seen, his girlfriend is his porn.

I prefer masturbating sometimes after the porn, sometimes during the porn..well, thinking of somebody who i know and attracts me is better because i feel delighted and i can imagine my favorite positions.on the other hand if i don't wanna think it's easy to masturbate while i'm wathcing :D if i had a girlfriend who i make love, i wouldn't even watch porn :D i hope my answer will help you..

i do it while im watching it it just feels so damn good and i can see that woman just jumping on my big fst cock oh by the way none of u can have it

why don't you jack him off? and him finger fuck you?......

Yea. Women don't seem to understand there are (at least!) 2 kinds of sex, one is love making, the other is sex for pleasure. When i'm with a partner, it's different, I care about her needs. The enjoyment, frankly, is seeing her face as she climaxes again, and again.

Porn on the other hand allows me to just experience it for myself, without "using" her as a sex object. It's a different kind of sex.

Some people say that porn is bad because men would rather do that than have actual sex, this could be true, but I wonder how many guys loose their sex drive as that part of their lives essentially becomes "owned" by their partner... and things like porn & masturbation are not permitted (or cause so much fighting, it's just not worth it)

I don't expect you to understand, there are very few women who can understand what I'm talking about. It's kinda like a woman trying to explain flowers to a guy... we just don't get it.

You better go yell at him for doing it LOL! :-)

I used to be really worried about my man watching porn because I know all guys watch it, or they hide it, or they want to watch it...Even if they say they don't. Thinking of my man watching it behind my back or lying about it made me soooo sad inside and made me act on how i was feeling. I live with him and never ever found any signs of porn. Infact, my man never made me think he was watching it. But I had my feelings that he was hiding it some where else or some thing. Instead of worrying myself to death I decided to try some thing new. One night while we watched tv I found a free soft porn on showtime. I clicked on it and my boyfriend got all upset at me. I did not understand why. He said he isnty into that stuff. I left the room and told him i loved him and minutes later I went back into the room and turned the tv back on to something else. He started rubbing on me and asked me to find something naughty to watch afterall. So I picked out a porn from the pay per view section. The movie got really hot and showed everything. I noticed he and I were both getting really turned on. We ended up getting things really hot between us (and hey get hot even without porn). I told him i am ok with him watching the scenes and even closed my eyes so he felt more comy watching it and not feel me watching him. At first the thoughts were racing through my mind. i didnt know if I was upset or turned on to know that I made myself a part of all this instead of him doing by himself. Weather or not he was doing it by himself...i will never know. Now we have done this a few times and we both are loving it. What I like is that we watches me when I cum and when I am making him feel good he watches only me. I did really kinky things for him and even pointed out the girls breasts that i liked so he felt he could be himself too. I didnt make him feel strange or make him feel bad about it. I did however tell him i dont want him watching it without me and that if he wanted to watch it without having sex that i would give him a bj while he watched it so he wouldnt have to jack off or watch it behind my back...and i let him know i am soo ok with it... Since I decided to try this whole thing out i noticed how much better our sex is and for some reason i am ok with the porn thing now. Im really suprised that good came of this. Now if i feel or find out that he is starting to watch it behind my back or has to watch it everytime we have sex then I will be hurt. But so far so good. ladies, i know its hard to do... but if you dont make him feel strange while doing it or after doing it then the outcome will be good. Its worth a try right? And even if it doesnt work at least you can see the looks he gets on his face while watching it so you really know how into it he gets when he sees dirty movies. Its worth it one way or another. Just try really hard not to get mad or make him feel strange. You just might like it yourself. But beware... Just because it worked for me so far doesnt mean it will work with every guy. Also by doing this you are opening a new door. So be prepared to deal with the good or the bad that may come along with it. Good luck. It is fun though. And I now really like to see him in so much pleasure. Knowing that he doesnt have to hide it from me makes me love him even more.

Why are most women so silly worrying about this stuff. I''m female, I watch porn and masturbate to it when I'm bored or really turned on and my man isn't around. It just makes you that much more turned on masturbating while watching porn... It's not a big deal and it's nothing to do with your relationship (unless he'd rather watch porn than have sex with you).

I masturbate while watching it. I like to think I'm the camera man jacking off to the people or person getting it on. It's really goo for me when I watch threesomes when the girls is blowing the camera man. It feels amazing for me.

It is impossible to think of nothing while we masterbate. If we thought about nothing...we'd lose our erection. BYE!

I generally watch it as I'm masturbating, just to concentrate on the female form and the act. For me, replaying it in my head is no where near as satisfying. So if he can do that, he probably is more sexually cerebral than most guys. Good for him.

I wouldn't worry about it unless he prefers it over you.

Have him watch porn while you give him a blowjob. If done correctly, he will never watch porn without you again.

I masturbate while watching. I either think I am the person receiving in pov, a contributor in bukakke, a participant in group sex, and sometimes if the woman resembles my wife amd i is being had by two or more men I am a voyeur watching my wife act like a slut. These are the best probably because I believe that she behaved like a slut and I was the cuckold. But when I cum and lick it all up cos it tastes good I turn off the porn.