my ex says he loves me. but ignors me and lies about where hes at and what hes doing .idk how to leave him alone or if its a good idea.help.

Leave him. Guys say things and they're good at convincing us. If he "loves" you, he wouldn't be doing any of that and feel horrible about it.

Do you want to go through this for the rest of your life? An ex is an ex for a reason. You can't change anyone and you can't make anyone else happy. Only they can do that for themselves. Staying with someone for your kids is not good. They deserve to see you happy and being respected ... that means by yourself, too. Listen to your heart. Doubts are there for a reason.

i want to be with him because we have 5 kids together..and he says he wants to come home but then finds reasons to why it cant happen yet.i really want to work it out..but we broke up and things remained the samee as far as us having sex.and me still bringing lunch on his break.is it because i am doing to much for him and not letting him really see what it is like with out me...i tell him how i feel about us and what he means to me he says he feels like coming home after what he has put me threw wouldnt be fare to me ..give it time it will happen but i dont know if he is just stringing me along so he can live the best of both worlds have me there and live a free life also.he knows my door is open to him when hes ready .i even tryed to talk to another male to see if he would get upset and realize he could lose me and the kids but it backfired on me he was acting like my enemy ..he wanted nothing to do with me until i left him.help me out im stuck

well he is your ex and you dont trust him either then what is the point to keep him just part your ways and leave him.