I'm 31 recently divored, no children, make a decent living.I'm not over weight or anything.but i can't find a date what am I doing wrong??

I am 29. I'm divorced. Most men care more about whether or not you have kids, not whether or not you are divorced. By this age so many of us are divorced anyway, that it's not a big deal. This is something I learned during the dating process.

I have a lot of men interested in me, but I'm not ever interested in them (sigh). They say that I radiate joy and happiness. I guess that is the key. In my private life I'm not always that way, but when I'm out and about I feel that way more. And I'm never looking for a man, even though I do want to meet someone. Just try to figure out how to be happy with yourself, and the men will show up. Now meeting a keeper is a different story :-( I can't figure out how to do that yet.

start rug-munchin instead.

You're not doing anything wrong and everything happens for a reason. I am in the same boat but have never been married. I recently joined social groups and fitness groups to try and meet new people plus make new friends. You will meet a great guy when you least expect it.

Why are you looking.Stop looking, just live your life .That what attract people to you is your life.

smh

Are you interesting? Do you have a sense of humor? Are you shy? Are you likable? Are you arrogant and unapproachable? Do you dress like your mother? There's a lot more to a person than looks. Wish you well.

I'm not shy, I ride a motorcycle , I shoot pool, play softball, snowboard, I love traveling, I think I'm interesting... definatly don't dress like mom. . . . LOL! Thanks for your input. . .

I think you answered your own question. Men are terrified of being divorced these days. You already have a bad track record. Sorry to be so blunt, but somebody's got to say it.