OK well My girlfriend cheated on me 3 different times but each time she was drunk..she wants to get back together but not right now she

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anyhow, listen, i'm a woman and i've never cheated, regardless of how drunk I've gotten. And I'll admit, in my party days, I drank a lot. You need to ditch this woman. She's no good for you and no good for anyone. And after you leave her, go put her on that reportyourex website. www.reportyourex.com - do that and maybe it'll save someone else some heartache.

woah. 3 times. same guy. ... no...she's lying. that does NOT happen. you may love her but if she really loved YOU then she would drop the guy and not get drunk with him or even talk to him if that's what happens. no, if she doesn't give him up...actually, no. just drop her. get a better girl who won't "accidentally" cheat on you.

Take her back if you want to but keep this in mind. If you can't deal with the fact that SHE WILL CHEAT ON YOU AGAIN! Don't take her back. Otherwise you can be in a committed open relationship with her. That way she can fuck the other guy(s) all she wants, and same vice versa for you, but she is still your girl.

Listen to your heart. Doubts are there for a reason. You can't change another person and she isn't likely to change on her own. Do you want to live like this for the rest of your life? What if you get her pregnant? There's nothing lonelier than being with the wrong person ... especially when the right one comes along. Get on with your life and find the right one who will love and be faithful to you.

Yep. Ditch the bitch. Or one day, she'll bring home a nice VD or two to share with you, possibly HIV. then she can apologize blah blah blah all she wants and it wont mean a damn to you.

Yep get rid of the bitch. I'm a female and have never been as irrsponsible to get drunk and have a one-night stand (I find that degrading that she would have one who knows what diseases the guy has and now her). So even if she was drunk she should've known better and she should've been paying better attention. And the last bit was good old mulipulation. Move on... you'll find a girl thats better than this one.

If she wants to get back together, but not right now, this means she wants to keep you as a stand-by while she plays the field.

When she says she doesn't deserve you, this one one of the things that females sometimes say when they want to distance themselves from their boyfriends, as appears to be the case with you. What I would do is accept what she says, because it is the truth. She doesn't deserve you. Find someone who does.

She needs time to see if she can find someone she likes better and is wanting to keep you hanging until then. She doesn't love you. She loves herself. You don't deserve this kind of treatment. Find someone that can love you the way you should be loved.

SHE needs time? huh. I'd tell her "Go kick rock's!!!" and show her the door. And go out and go out and find a new Girl. (this way it'll be a new start) not just that ; make new friends and stay busy...Don't let her live in your mind rent free! Good luck, You CAN do it!