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She wont look after herself and likes the attention.
She has a 6yr old kid who tries to persuade her to quit, but with no effect
I`d like to spend the rest of my life and have a child with her, but why should I invest my future in someone who is throwing theirs away? What can I do?
by nubosa1 on October 31st, 2011
Been through this. Recently split with an older woman that I felt drank too much on occasion, trying to be 21 again. Grant it she was going through a lot of issues that led to the drinking, but she could have been doing this her whole life, who knows?
Anywho, when we had our 'break-up' discussion, and bantered about the likes and dislikes of each other, I brought up her excessive drinking finally. She understood, but before I left, she had to seal the cap by making one last defensive remark: 'Well I guess my drinking is just too wild and crazy for everybody!'
by Robogirl_roboguy_robodog_robocat_in_2030 on January 29th, 2010
Dump her, she doesn't care about even herself. Also do you want to raise her child? Find a woman with morals and respect who has no children. Youll be happy with the right woman. I am single and would never settle for Mrs. wrong.
by Fern on January 29th, 2010
Correct! Why would you put yourself already to a very disturbed person? you're life would be miserable too for sure if you will choose this path. People with these kind of vices really don't listen to what others would try to advice. They will learn from their own mistake at their own course, coz no matter how hard you try to help her she won't really listen to you. The usual responds from them: "it's my life" so let it be and find someone whose not a pain in the ass.
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