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  • <h4 class="dechead">On One Hand: Take a Hostess Gift

    The Emily Post Institute does a stellar job of advising when a hostess gift is required. It says that a hostess gift is mandatory for an overnight stay. For a dinner party, a simple gift costing $25 or less is sufficient. But for cocktail parties and casual gatherings such as a brunch, a gift is optional.

    On the Other: Don't Take a Gift

    Many people don't give hostess gifts because it wasn't something they were raised to do. If you grew up in the potluck era when everyone contributed food or drink to the gathering, a hostess gift wasn't expected or required. And many people don't want a hostess gift. They have enough wine, soaps and homemade jams lying around. They don't want more.

    Bottom Line

    It's better to give than not. Something small and thoughtful is adequate and will show your appreciation. Think a bottle of wine or liqueur, monogrammed cocktail napkins or a vase of flowers.

    Source:

    Etiquette and Advice from the Emily Post Institute:

    Why Don't People RSVP and Bring Hostess Gifts?:

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