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by kbest1223334 on January 25th, 2010

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i AM 15 YEARS OLD AND I WANT A BABY WAT SHOULDI DO

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  • by candyandpaige on January 25th, 2010

    candyandpaige

    Get a baby doll for christ sake



    P.S. This is Paige

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  • by Wellduh on January 25th, 2010

    Wellduh

    How do you plan to support a child? Can you work at a job that pays enough to support yourself and a baby? Do you expect your parents or your government to do it for you? Who is going to babysit, and how will you pay them, when you want to go partying with your friends? How will you be able to buy the stylish clothes you want when all your money is going for diapers and formula? Why not get a job babysitting for a baby and find out just how much work it is. Even 2 hrs with a screaming child can show you it isn't all fun and games.

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  • by Beauty4Ashes on January 25th, 2010

    Beauty4Ashes

    Well, I'm 17 and I'm expecting. I didn't do it purposely and I'm not saying I regret it. i love my baby already and he's not even here yet, but I do wish I would have waited for a stable man to help support me and my baby. It's a lot to think about. I can't even imagine being FIFTEEN and getting pregnant. I'm a Sr. and I'm stressed so much, so finish school first, atleast.

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  • by Schiavo_1234 on February 19th, 2010

    Schiavo_1234

    Are you CRAZY?

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  • by futureMarine on February 19th, 2010

    futureMarine

    your stupid you must not realize how hard it actually is . its not your mommy and daddys job to suppors YOUR baby.your a year older then me but that doesnt matter your not going to get somone to take care of it when its annoying and you just get it when its nice and adorable(not often). i dont have a kid or anything but i helped take care of 3 kids most of my life and it sucks and thats with help from there moms and dads my mom and dad and a lot of family. its not an easy thing. its not fun . you have that thing that will depend on you for 18 years or more.you cant get a paying job;or at least one that pays enough for a baby and yourself. you should not have a baby and expect your parents do do it all. but if you do have one then they probaly will. your only 15 your nor old enough and not able to properly take care of a child. yourprobaly going to disregard tyhis considering im younger than you . but at least wait until your out of school have a job and a guy that wont be a docuhe and leave you.im 14 and wouldnt mind having a daughter but im to young,and i most likly will have one when i get out of the marines.(unless i get killed).

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  • by cloudman on February 6th, 2010

    cloudman

    My mother was 15 when she got pregnant with me. The nurses at the hospital where I was born in Long Beach, California referred to her as a baby having a baby. She did the best she could for a kid. After the Japanese bombed Pearl Harbor she was left in California alone with no family because my dad was called back into active duty in the Navy. She was only 17 at the time; that was December 1941. She worked her butt off to take care of herself and me from then on - even after dad returned in February, 1946. He was emotionally disturbed from his war experiences in New Guinea and started abusing alcohol and got mean. They divorced. Mother did not remarry until I was 15. Those years of hard work wore her down. She missed an important time of a woman's youth. She had way too much responsibility and hardly any freedom.

    Of course I'm glad that she had me but sorry that she did not have more fun and more time to explore opportunities out there in the big, wide world. I was with her when she died in 2004. She called me her baby up until that day. I loved it. She dedicated most of her life to me and I wish she had not. She never told me that I was a burden and she never treated me as though I was a burden. But - I was a burden.

    My guess is that there are biological reasons why you are feeling the way you do about having a baby. But if you have but a fraction of a brain you will wait.

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  • by March8577 on January 25th, 2010

    March8577

    I think that is extremely selfish and irresponsible. You do not know what it's like to have a child until you have one, and then it is too late to change it. Of course you would love your baby. I had a daughter at age 18 unintentionally and I love her more than anything but that doesn't change the fact that my parents had to help financially and that's not fair to them, regardless of whether or not they're rich. A mother and father should be stable and able to raise a child before making the decision to have one and at age 15 trust me, you are not ready even if you think that deep down you know you could. You should want only the best for your children and what would be best is to wait til you are happily married to a man that you are confident would be a wonderful father. That is one of the things women look for when dating (and there's a reason). You will see the other people you're age going out and having a good time. You will be at home changing diapers and wiping the spit up off your nursing shirt. Bottom line...it is selfish and unfair to a child to have a mother that cannot provide for him/her. Babies require more than love and oxygen.

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  • by candyandpaige on January 25th, 2010

    candyandpaige

    Get a fucking cabbage patch doll

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  • by katydid15 on January 25th, 2010

    katydid15

    Wait ten years.

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  • by unkown0554 on January 25th, 2010

    unkown0554

    I think that your way to young yea there cute and stuff when there little but once they get older 4, 5 there not so cute. Im 26 I had my first bby at 16 It was so hard just trying to get to school everyday and after stright to pick up my bby from child care. no after school hang out no weekend parties its all growning up frm there.. I think that you should enjoy life being young finish school and when your financialy stable then thing about it.. dont ruin your life..

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  • by dea_ex_machina on January 25th, 2010

    dea_ex_machina

    keep your legs together!
    Be realistic - you just want a doll - something to play with!
    Can you feed it? clothe it? pay into its college fund? Pay for its medical care?
    If you cannot do all that, then it would be irresponsible for you to have a baby - it is a life! not a toy!

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  • by Purple Zebra From Wonderland on February 4th, 2010

    Purple Zebra From Wonderland

    Seriously your way too young. I mean come on, wake up and smell the coffee!! Your only 15!! Why the hell would you want a baby at your age? Don't you just wanna hang out with your friends, have fun? Life will be easier without a baby. At least finish youreducation! What if you want to go to college? You can't go with a baby! I wouldn't put it past them if they never let you get in a college!
    But if you don't believe any of these 26 people who think your so wrong and stupid for wanting that, then I think you know how to get a baby!

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  • by acidbath on January 25th, 2010

    acidbath

    you sound like a moron.
    you would end up living in poverty...
    taking care of a baby.
    you prolly dont even make YOUR own food yet.
    you cant titty feed a kid forever.lol
    that shit costs.
    with the economy bein a piece of shit at the moment,
    an needing educaution like a beast these days...
    you will end up hating life an smoking da rock.
    your a dumbass.

    you should go sew your cooch up.

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  • by NAYELLIE on January 25th, 2010

    NAYELLIE

    WELLHAVE SEX.. S THE ONLY SOLUTION U HAVE... BT I THINK UR TO YOUNG BT IS UP TO U..THEN LATER ON WHEN U WANT TO HAVE FUN UR GONNA HAVE TO TAKE CARE OF THE BABY..

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  • by fly32407 on February 6th, 2010

    fly32407

    I get that. I'm 16 and want a baby sometimes. But don't even go there. You are young and don't need a baby right now. It's too much work and you can't balance everything. Don't even think about it if it gets too bad.

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  • by Emolove on March 19th, 2010

    Emolove

    Don't have 1 buy a baby doll cause a baby at a young age u won't be able 2 support it and ur parents will be mad...my sis is expecting at 18 but she wishes she waited

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  • by Schiavo_1234 on February 19th, 2010

    Schiavo_1234

    ARE YOU CRAZY????

    You are currently experiencing the effects of hormones and they are playing tricks on your mind. You really do not want a baby right now, because it will only be fun for about two days... then you will realize that you will not be able to hang with the girls, or go to college (at least one that doesn't advertise on late-night TV).

    To be direct: unless you want your future adult life to be limited to abusive men, cheap whisky and trailer homes built in the 1970's - DON'T DO IT!

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  • by LarryH54 on February 6th, 2010

    LarryH54

    WAIT. THERE ARE FEW FASTER WAYS OF DESTROYING YOUR FUTURE THAN HAVING A BABY OUT OF WEDLOCK

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  • by jmbush1987 on February 7th, 2010

    jmbush1987

    Okay...thats your opinion but your asking others..I am 22 and had a baby girl Sept. 09 and shes 6 mths now. Child birth can be great but its one day or night of pain but it really hurts and is a life changing ordeal. I honestly think its great you care and want to have a child..thats beautiful that you want to bear your fruits. My opinion is that during teen yrs. wouldnt you want to finish other things in your life than take care of a child,,b/c it will be hard..Youd have to stay up all night and feed and newborns cry for no reason and you cant stop it. Just to be nice..I think that you should wait a while to be a mother because youll have fun being independent and growing up more with your peers at a non stressful rate...and save money while your at it..also if your starting to drive and work somewhere..you can be more laid back....Please wait...!

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  • by amanda6340 on February 21st, 2010

    amanda6340

    First dude your 15 its not a good thing to have kids at that age at all cause you have to do alot and it will suck. Have you ever seen 16 and pregnant well those girls struggle through there life trying to raise a kid at 16 trust me just wait till you are married so that it wont be so hard.

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  • by snkarp on January 25th, 2010

    snkarp

    PLEASE wait until you are older and have the means to support a child. You will miss out on so many things if you have a baby at your age.
    If you want to be around babies, try to get a part time job at a daycare or volunteer at a hospital.

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  • by sarahsherwood on January 25th, 2010

    sarahsherwood

    simply put: wait. i am assuming you're a girl, and as a woman i understand the overwhelming urge you can have at a young age to have someone you care for and who looks up to you as their role model and loves you instinctively. as an expectant mother who is nearly twice your age, i can also say having a baby is so much more of a responsibility that you could imagine. i have wanted children for YEARS now and now that i am expecting (while the most imcredible blessing) it is SO stressful and time consuming and just HUGE! you have so many important, fun, crazy, life-changing opportunities ahead of you that will make you the person you are as an adult. things that will help mold a child's life in important ways, and things that you will look back on and think "i couldn't imagine my life, had i not done that." having a baby can limit your ability to take that journey. so wait, and become a better mommy along the way. you and your future family will be better for it.

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  • by thatsJustme on January 25th, 2010

    thatsJustme

    grow up first....a baby deserves more ....think about the baby first ,not yourself....thats the first step in being a good parent....needs and wants of their child ,not theirself....and they deserve a father too....

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  • by snakelover on January 25th, 2010

    snakelover

    NOT HAVE ONE!!! I was a teen mom & (no offense) you don't have enough life skills & experience being a mom so early. My advise would to be get a small dog. If the responsibility of caring for a dog @ 15 yo, then imagine having to take care of a little person who is 10 times more demanding. It's not easy. I struggled & had just turned 18 before I gave birth. @ 15, ur going 2 have it worse & will be struggling for a LOOOONG time. Don't you want to have your kid well taken care of? Sorry, btut 1 15 y/o can't do it. I couldn't @ 18. Good luck & I hope u change ur mnd.

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  • by manywords on January 25th, 2010

    manywords

    You are a child and a long time away from needing to be thinking about sex and babies. Have fun being a kid. When you are an adult and find your mate, then marry and have a family. Doing things in the wrong order always brings problems.

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  • by MasterS on January 25th, 2010

    MasterS

    I certainly would not be considering having a child at this age.
    You are far to young and have many years ahead of you to take on such responsibility.
    I would wait, and this is good advice.

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  • by malibu92 on January 25th, 2010

    malibu92

    DO NOT. Are you crazy? You're flippin' 15 years old. You have nowhere near enough life skills and experience to deal with that. Taking care of a baby is harder than i suppose you know. Besides, your body isn't fully developed yet, and can't handle that kind of stress. Just wait it out. Believe me, i understand. But don't do anything rash. Don't even have sex unless you know for sure it won't affect you the wrong way. Trust me.

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  • by Anevermind on January 25th, 2010

    Anevermind

    Assuming you are a girl, all you need is a guy who is dumb enough not to use a condom. :p
    Assuming you are a man... you can't have kids, try adopting one. :p

    Conclusion: getting pregnant is very stupid at such a young age. :p

    Anyway, if you are a chick who just wants to take care of someone, how about a chinchilla?

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  • by gardengirl10 on January 25th, 2010

    gardengirl10

    Borrow someone's. Frequently people with kids appreciate a free baby sitter. Do it enough and it gets old fast.

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  • by cpxtofuboi on January 25th, 2010

    cpxtofuboi

    be a skank and fuck a guy and make sure you poke a hole in the condum
    or be a skank and sleep around and see whos the daddy

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  • by LePoupon is a proper gander. on January 25th, 2010

    LePoupon is a proper gander.

    Look up how to make babies.

    Follow instructions.

    Then you're pretty much screwed, but you enjoy that kid now.

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  • by Legend of my mind on January 25th, 2010

    Legend of my mind

    You should wait till your older. It will be better for you and the child.

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  • by Paris was Here on January 25th, 2010

    Paris was Here

    Move to Gloucester, Massachusetts, USA.

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  • by call me Kat on January 25th, 2010

    call me Kat

    Try babysitting for awhile first. You may discover that wet, smelly, crying babies are not for you after all. Also keep in mind that your date nights will decrease if you have a baby to care for, and your female friends will not want you constantly bringing a wet, smelly, crying baby with you wherever you go.

    If you are looking for someone to "love you" a baby does not care who takes care of it but you must be willing to take care of it ALL THE TIME, and with your full attention and affection, if you want to be worthy of the baby's love.

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