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by Anonymous on April 6th, 2007

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Doesnt any1 believe in 2nd chances for those who made mistakes and are trying to be better? yes i cheated on my bf but i have learned and am making things better so i can be a better person. i dont expect him 2 just take me back, i said i'd work for it.

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  • by Butterfly on April 12th, 2008

    Butterfly

    since you had lost his trust ... it's really hard for you to get it back... if you want it back you have to work hard and need more effort... in every relationships there is only one chance... if you gave another chance... he will be feeling differently towards you... and you will have so much troubles and arguments... he will keep tracking you... beleive me is not that easy to gain back his trust... good luck for you...

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  • by Indigo- in the library with the revolver on June 1st, 2008

    Indigo- in the library with the revolver

    I believe in second chances, and I also believe there's usually some problem in the relationship that would make someone cheat, so it would have to be taken care of.

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  • by UneFille on April 13th, 2008

    UneFille

    Sure, there are always second chances. Maybe not with the same person, but in life yes.

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  • by Jed Merrill on April 13th, 2008

    Jed Merrill

    I can't give you another chance, but if you are sincere, God might.

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  • by Client10 on April 12th, 2008

    Client10

    Yes, you can work for it. Be honest. Completely honest. Never put yourself into any situation where anyone might get the slightest impression that you were unfaithful again. Stay with him, show him your complete and full love. Good luck!

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  • by science_geek on April 6th, 2007

    science_geek

    Usually in relationships once trust has been violated it is very difficult to overcome the changes that it causes. Unless there are compelling reasons that tie you together it will most likely not be recoverable. There are other things to consider too, such as what caused you to cheat in the first place and how will you remedy the deficit that caused you to be able to in the first place?

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  • by BobSaccamano-is-back on April 6th, 2007

    BobSaccamano-is-back

    I believe in second chances, but I don't give them to a person who has cheated on me. It doesn't matter if they never do it again, in the back of my head they will never be as trusted as before, it is a seed that will always be there, so I don't deal with it anymore. You cheat on me, you're gone. Sorry, I know this isn't what you wanted to hear, but it is the truth from my perspective. I have never cheated on another person and didn't need to do it to "learn" not to.

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  • by linusnuahs on June 1st, 2008

    linusnuahs

    What would you have done if it was he who cheated on you? It isn't that easy to gain back the trust... If you have the patience and enough love for him, then keep working on patching up....

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  • by Imphamous on June 1st, 2008

    Imphamous

    There is always a chance as long as your breathing. Rome wasn't built in a day(neither was cleveland,but don't tell them that) Take your chances and see where they take you.

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  • by Scott on June 1st, 2008

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    it doesn't matter how hard you try, if he doesn't want to take you back then he doesn't want to, and that's his choice. Your actions may have consequences beyond your boyfriend too in that those other people that know of your cheating on him may be less inclined to give you a chance at all out of fear. But learning to be loyal in itslef won't give you a second chance, but will insure you a better chance in keeping your relationship with whoever you find next.

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  • by denidowi on June 1st, 2008

    denidowi

    Yes; Jesus and His Father were the perfect Believers in 2nd chances!!
    So much so, in fact, that it was the very cause He paid in Gethsemane and upon the cross for the '2nd chances' of all who might repent.
    That was His very major Purpose from the Beginning.
    In Him, if ye are baptized unto repentance, He will seal you His and save you from the everlasting chains of hell.

    If you join His real Church here: the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, He will lead you into complete and full joy with a young man who will marry you Forever, and take you to God's Temple - that your entire family might live together Forever.
    What better Gift of repentance could you want than that??

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  • by sportajedi on April 6th, 2007

    sportajedi

    Depends on the situation and the circumstances. Some things deserve second chances and some things don't.

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  • by littowadey on April 6th, 2007

    littowadey

    Good luck. (not sarcastically) I believe in second chances - but not third or fourth. Try not to mess it up.

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  • by denidowi on September 20th, 2008

    denidowi

    NO! FEW believe in giving genuine 2nd chance, because Few believe in Christian principles of living.
    It is a key Gospel principle that people be given the genuine chance for "Repentance" ... and few believe in real Christianity today.
    It's gone from the language, gone from schools, and virtually, gone from the culture!
    Ooh! I see I already have entered an answer on this.
    Well, you can checkout the 2 answers for consistency!
    A girl in our Church married a non-member.
    After some years, he cheated. (I don't know why; he was stupid. She was Beautiful. She had a lovely radiant face, was physically put together, almost like a dream, and she was a beautiful sweet soul of a girl - with much personality.
    She split, and I thought I had my chance.
    It would have been good - very good ... but he finally wanted here back again.
    She decided to accept (There were also 2 or 3 children involved).
    Even though I was the one who missed out, I know she did the right thing in giving him another chance, and I would only hold that in her honour that she felt to do that before pursuing my interest.

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  • by little sprout on June 1st, 2008

    little sprout

    I hate to say this. I think we have seen this played out alot where a man will cheat on a women be that with a high price hooker or some random girl and there gf or wife will forgive them regardless of if it high profile or not. a man however is sometimes less forgiving and can never get over cheating why is this I am not sure. Dont beg. Just go do your own thing and do it for you. I dont condone cheating but we all make mistakes, you need to fogive yourself before he can, you broke his trust that is a deal breaker for alot of people

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