by answerbaggg on January 17th, 2010

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Cheated on girlfriend

I love my girlfriend so much. I was a fool. This is a long story so I'll use short sentences. I've not told my girlfriend anything and don't now know whether I now should. I don't know why I did any of this stuff. At the time I would forget everything and just go through with it with deep regret following. Here is a timeline. Got with girlfiend June 2006 when I was 16. Kissed 3 girls on holiday the same year when drunk. 2007. Kissed a girl sober on a short holiday break. Kissed a girl while drunk in a nightclub on another holiday with mates and there was some touching up over clothes in the nightclub. 2008. Started university in the Autumn. A few weeks into uni our relationship was looking bad and I kissed a girl several times one night while really drunk. I also gained feelings for another girl in some one week long depressing period of time. We kissed several times and slept in the same bed every night for almost a week but only once did we move past kissing and that was for 5mins of masturbation before I left. I've had several opportunities to have sex but have always rejected it. I could never have done that to her. After that night something clicked and since October 2008 I haven't even been tempted by other girls. I was young and stupid and now I don't want to let my relationship go on without my gf knowing the truth. I know that telling her could destroy us though. I love this girl so much and I know she loves me too and would do nothing to hurt me. I don't know what to do!

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  • by advicegiverer on February 17th, 2010

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    i agree that if you loved her that much you would of never have done it in the first place . you would of thought of the consiquences . i think you should tell her , she has a right to know and the truth has a weird and cruel way of coming out . karma is especially a b**ch . i think from once you tell her it should be her choice whether to break it off or not . you get what you deserve and im sure she deserved better then to be cheated on . telling her the truth is a must . get everything out into the open , dont leave any details out because she'll find out the extra little details later . the truth hurts , and if you didnt want to hurt her you should of thought of the consiquences in the first place and you would never have done that

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  • by Anonymous on March 3rd, 2010

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    Dude, we all do stupid things when young. You telling her is just going to cause hurt and pain.

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  • by laaayla on January 27th, 2010

    laaayla

    I think you should let your girlfriend see your question to all of us on AB. Wouldn't it be funny if she also had some confessing to do. There's an old song and one of the lines is something like this....who's making love to your old lady, while you were out making love.

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  • by Naughty Hamster on January 17th, 2010

    Naughty Hamster

    My question is.. how could you possibly fit THAT much characters into your question?? :o

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  • by wantingbetter on January 17th, 2010

    wantingbetter

    if you loved her that much you would ahve never thought of doing anything that stupid, my opinion is tell her, and let her do the choice of doing anythign about it, but you get what you deserve. you shoudlnt do that, and i feel sorry for ehr, because this has been done and she hasnt noticed a thing, to be honest tell ehr the truth, to show your feeling about it and i should end up changing her decision to end the realtionship. but right now the truth is the best option, even though it might hurt, its better to do it.

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