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I broke up with my girl for having cheat on me. But soon after the break up i am feeling damn desperate to find a new girl, Every girl I come across, I am having such thoughts. I feel like a despo. I want to get rid of such thoughts and carry on with my career. But then... I am getting turned on , on seeing any random girl. Is it alright to have such thoughts. Can i start a new relationship so that i can get over my past one soon.
by Genuinelyinterested on December 20th, 2009
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I don't know if this will help you or not but I have been through something similar but it was the guy that cheated so first off props to you for not letting her get away with it. It is never easy to lose a significant other no matter what way you lose them its the loss of a relationship that it sounds like you cherished. I don't know if its neccesarily a girl you want but more that close relationship again. It could come in the form of a friendship and quite possibly another girl. You have no reason to feel guilty abotu wanting to find a good woman to have a relationship afterall in your last relationship you did not do the wrong if you get what i'm saying. I do feel though that jumping into another relationship right away may not help you deal with whatever it is your dealing with. I know it sounds crazy but the best way to find someone is to not look for them and do your own thing if it is meant to be with someone it will happen. I hope that you find a great woman but make sure its for the right reasons and not just to fill a void make sure your ready to engage in another relationship completley because if your not your only cheating yourself as well as the woman no girl wants to feel like a rebound girl.. Hope that this helps out.
by anonymous on January 7th, 2010
it helps to get involved with someone else, but be careful it is not just a rebound. or even better, date platonic friends and take time to get to know them. that is the problem, these days. all sex, no love.
by flossmay on December 20th, 2009
I think your more horney than anything. Whats wrong with having thoughts, they cant hurt anyone, let them happen dont try and stop them they'll only get stronger if you surpress them. You should give it some time, you did'nt share any details which would of better equipped me for my advice, Whatever or whoever made the split weather it be you or her, needs to be addressed, as far as the reason, is it true , if so you need to work it out and do some soul searching, and change it, if it's her, soul search again and figure out why you picked this person and try to avoid her type at all cost. If you dont figure all this out it will leak into your next
relationship.
by Mokey on December 20th, 2009
It depends on how long it has been since the relationship ended. Under the circumstances that you are under I would suggest waiting a little longer so that you don't end up going out with someone just for a rebound relationship.
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