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The Curious Bag
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Good manners today can be found as commonly at the dinner table as at black-tie events. Knowing the proper manners to use at the appropriate times provides us the self-confidence and poise to behave graciously in any situation.
The Golden Rule
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Treating others with kindness and respect is the "golden standard" where manners are concerned.
Introductions
Good eye contact, a firm handshake and a pleasant smile are keys to a good first impression. Listening for and greeting your new contact by his name shows you care enough to remember him.
Mealtime
Whether for business or pleasure, meals should be a time of listening to pleasant conversation rather than hearing someone chew with an open mouth. Remembering to use napkins, utensils and the words "please" and "thank you" always make for an enjoyable meal.
Correspondence
Hand-written thank-you notes are always good manners. Responding promptly to invitations and social engagements shows your host respect and courteousness.
Travel
When staying with friends or family, offering to help pay for groceries, gasoline or other incidentals are ways to be a gracious house guest.
Source:
Wanda Thorson, AA, BS; Belles and Beaux of Tennessee; Jefferson City, Tenn.
"Letitia Baldrige's New Complete Guide to Executive Manners;" Letitia Baldrige; 1993
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