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Help me with some reasoning here...
This is NOT MY MAN, he is my closest friend and I love him dearly..
He just recently started going to strip clubs, I personally wouldn't mind going to one for fun and I've even offered for him to have a few dances my treat, but I don't understand how he can go to these clubs to have women grind all over him and then try to belittle me becuase I want to dress sexy [rarely!] to go to a dance club.
As a club photographer, I don't even have the chance to mingle at the bar or stay on the dance floor. I feel that it is harmless for me to wear something that makes me feel really attractive. How do I explain this to him when he gets all hot and bothered by what I'm wearing?
Is it right for him to call me a slut when he had the intentions of paying women to get him excited?
by Redrum on December 18th, 2009
He can't
by ladyshakespeare on December 19th, 2009
he is a chauvanist, there isnt any justification for this. If he is going to strip clubs and indulging in low class women, then he honestly CANt point a finger at anyubody for not being saintly.
by AnonymousGirl on September 18th, 2010
Maybe he thinks highly of you and doesn't want to associate you with that atmosphere because he doesn't respect those women.
I know you said he's not your man, but here, I have a story. I have an ex-boyfriend who loves watching strippers. He told me that his girlfriend wasn't allowed to be a stripper, though.
What does he want?
Maybe he wants to have his pleasure on the side and his security in his relationship. Maybe he wants his friends to not dress in clothes that make him horny because he respects them, but he wants women he doesn't respect to keep dressing the way that they are. What does that say about him as a person?
Can a guy be a skank?
by Have A Nice Day on November 6th, 2011
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Shouldn't women quit bragging about "women live longer then men"
by RCLAY on November 1st, 2011
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Why are women mroe afraid to cheat on their boyfreinds/husbands than men are to cheat on their girlfriends/wives?
by Anonymous on December 14th, 2011
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Shouldn't women be brave enough to admit that they do get intimidated by hot attractive men
by RCLAY on October 30th, 2011
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Are women intimidated by men that spend more time in the mirror then they do?
by RCLAY on October 31st, 2011
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