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I broke up with my girl for having cheated on me. I had been very loyal to her and I loved her honestly, she did too, but then she got carried away with an intelligent flirt who took advantage or her fickle mind. I don't love her anymore but then the fact that she involved with him physically while we were still in a relationship is disturbing me. What should I do ?
first of all, your feelings of hurt and desire for revenge are very normal feelings. most people who get betrayed in this mnner share your agony. We have all had crazy thoughts of revenge, but we must not act on them.
When I was 5 months pregnant, i found out that my b/f was actually married! He was military and he was on temporary orders to Washington, so his wife and children were still living in Texas. I was shocked, hurt, embarassed, ashamed. I cant describe the level of pain I was in. It crossd my mind to kill him, destroy his career, destroy his family, etc. but I did NOTHING! I went on with my life without him. That was almost8 years ago. i am married now (to someone else) have a beautiful, loving family andI couldnt be happier. Had I gonethrough with my crazy revenge thoughts, id be sitting in prison right now, my son would be with that monster of a human being, and i wouldnt have my husband.
I know it hurts, but look forward to what life has yet to offer you. Im sorry that you are going through all this. I really am.
well, first of all, don't consider rape as that would likely get you a jail sentence ..and it is just morally repugnant.
You have to learn to let it all go and move on with your life....you obviously still care about her or you wouldn't be so angry..you have to move on with your life.
What you have to understand about people is you dont own them, I dont care what contract you have with them through marriage, you didnt even have that, she was a girlfriend, just because you were having sex with here doesnt mean you have control of her; these things happen, dont ever invest your emotions in another person like that again, look what its doing to you your about to do something stupid; forget the cheatin bitch and find another one and this time dont get that emotionally involved
Let's not get crazy, unless you want to end up in jail. Her mind was'nt that fickle, as you say I mean you picked her, so does that mean you have fickle taste. I hope that made you laugh and not get mad( that was my point) laughter is healing it really is. You may think I am crazy but I speak from experience. Decide now if you really want this woman back, if you do allow yourself some time to get over the violent anger before you even talk to her again. Really get her to open up about why this happened and tell her you need her to be honest and forthrite as far as answering all your questions, even if its about the sex that went on between the two of them. Ask her what was lackin in your relationship that she turned to someone else. I mean really have a heart to heart and then forgive her and go on from there and never bring it up again. If you constantly hammer her it sours the relationship even thought it's the other persons fault. Now this other person has to want to make it work, if she still loves you and you love her it can work, only if you put work into it, you really have to share your hearts and decide from there wether its worth saving. know one deserves to be raped, not even somebody that emotionally raped you, it's just not worth it........good luck
Easy-u will go to jail-and get dick up ur ass-so do not do it, get a new gf.
natural, rape is a good way to get off and make someone else hurt, when mine cheated on me, that passed through my mind too but never happened obviously
Being angry is a very normal thing especially when someone has done such harm to you. But don't let it get the best of you. Breaking it off with this girl was the best decision, now you've got to move on and deal with the pain. Hurting her will not take the pain away. Plus you could be looking at jail time and your face plastered up on the internet as a sex offender in your county. It's not worth it, nor is she worth it. Find something else to do, take up a hobby, see a counselor !!! Occupy your time... Best of luck.....
Take Nike's advice - Just Do It.
Dump the bitch. She's not worth your aggravation.
just forget about it and move one
just forget about it and move one
just forget about it and move one
Think about being raped in prison that hopefully will put you at easy.
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Thanks a Lot . I feel much better. You have showed me the positive side of what will happen if i simply move on , and that is really sweet of you . Thank you so much. Take care.
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