If you have had an miscarriage do you find that you are always thinking about the baby and what he/she would be doing now in their life?

yea, mine would have been 3 this coming july, i wonder if the baby would have been normal as the other 3 year olds i see,

yea i have had one and sometimes i do think about what he would be doing right now,everyday,tomorrow.etc.but you kno life goes on and i learned that he is with me everyday watching me and guiding me through life.

My mother had two miscarriages when I was 4 because she was sick.
She says she doesn't really think about it, because she had me and is grateful enough for that considering her condition at the time.

I've never had a miscarriage-but my older sister was one. I try to think about what it would be like to have an older sister-but in reality if she survived my parents wouldn't have had me- they were looking for 3 kids and that's that. We don't talk about it much.

I have had two my frist one would be six in october I think about what she would look like and what her personality would be. My second one was in may of this yr I stil cry over both my babies I have lost.

Yes I had one about a month ago.I was seven weeks.but for some reason its like im still counting how many weeks I would have been now and how huge my belly would have been.im trying hard everyday to shake it off but I guess because its so fresh in my head its hard to do.