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  • THE FULL STORY I think I'm falling for my best friend, and I don't know what to do.? About a year and a half ago I went through a break up with my ex, and my friend was there through the whole thing. A couple months later he want through his own break up and I made sure I was there for him. Are friendship got stronger and we got closer. He is my one and only true friend. A month later something’s were said to me from other people and I read something’s that were sent from him to someone else. I'm not big on lies from what my ex did and he knew that so I outed him and stopped talking to him. A couple months went by and I started to really miss him, I didn't have my shoulder to cry on anymore. I wanted him back (or at least a closer, some questions answered) So I contacted him and we talked it out it was all a misunderstanding. We are now talking everyday and joking around like we use to, but something changed. My feelings for him are stronger. I always say to myself I wish all guys could be like him, but I just want him. I'm afraid that if I tell him and he doesn't feel the same that it will change are friendship and I don't want to lose him, and I am not sure if its to soon to tell him when we just started talking again. Can anyone help me? Additional Details I'm 20 years old and he's 22 We met thru work, we no longer work together he's back in school and I'm taking night classes. We have a ton in common, and we both think alike.
  • Well...duuuuuuh.
  • Honesty is the one thing that can sink a friendship or keep it above the waves. I've had feelings for a few of my friends before, and I just tell them. Even when I know I don't have a chance with them, I just tell them because I want them to know how I feel. None of them have ever felt the same. They just thanked me for my honesty, we had a short talk about how friendship is enough for both of us, and things weren't only as good as before, they were better.
  • Why are you wasting time asking this question??? Get you ass in to gear and tell him how you feel. I swear, if i see any more from you on this, i'll kick your ass then take you to him myself. What are you waiting for....MOVE!!!!

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