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by Anonymous on November 25th, 2009

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So i am in love with a girl, we dated for almost 3 years,and we took a break, one night, i got a little stupid and let another girl send me dirty pics, then i lied about it.now we're done. what do i do now that she says she can never trust me again?

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  • by sweetielowe on November 25th, 2009

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    The problem is that you didn't come clean without her having to nag and beg you after she'd already found out. So now she knows that being able to keep lies about things like this is a part of your character.
    I don't think there is any way of her being able to trust you I'm afraid :(
    And you have to ask yourself that if you've lied in the past (you didn't say what it was about but i'm assuming it was about faithfulness?) then can you 100% say that you wouldn't do it again? or are convincing yourself of that because you are now scared of losing her.
    Sometimes repeated bad patterns emerge within a relationship that can't ever be overcome. It doesn't mean to say that you wouldn't be completely different with someone else.
    If I were you i'd apologize to her once and for all for how you'd been in the relationship and move on. Making sure you've learned from past mistakes.
    Wish you all the best and sorry if its not what you wanted to hear x

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  • by Anonymous on November 25th, 2009

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    there wasn't enough room to say this, i have lied in the past...but never about this, i eventually came clean, but it took like an hour of her begging me for me to finally man up and tell her...was just so ashamed and scared of losing her, now i guess she's gone for good...is there anyway to repair the damaged trust or is it gone for good? she says she can never trust me again, but i can't help but feel i'm the one for her....help me please

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  • by TheJoker on November 25th, 2009

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    I'm sorry to say, but I think you've burnt your bridges with this girl. In all honesty, how can you ask her to trust you again when you admit you have a history of lying. & compounding the issue by making her beg before you finnally had enough feeling to admit what had happened. The best advice I can offer is that you do some work on yourself, try & become trustworthy, & learn from your mistakes.

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  • by Major Look at yerself on November 25th, 2009

    Major Look at yerself

    Be honest and admit you are cowardly, and make amends. Become trustworthy.

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