Is there something wrong with me? I'm asian, but for some odd reason I am ONLY attracted to white girls and find asian girls unattractive and I am constantly being accused of betraying asians by my mum and asian girls, should I try stick with my own race?

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• Thanks, this really helped me.
  But what should I do about the girls that tell me I've betrayed the race.
  The last time I dated a Caucasian, a lot of the asian girls were calling me a racist and that i wasn't truly asian.
  
  How can I handle people like this?

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  by Awesome on November 25th, 2009

• You have several options, but mostly, it is important to realize that people with this mindset aren't usually open-minded enough to have an intelligent conversation about it. In fact, their comments are racist! They are akin to aryan nation remarks, to be honest. I think I would find a new group of people to hang around with, and ignore those who make remarks like that. Get away from them whenever you can, but don't be alone. Just find a nicer group to hang with. Geez, what small minds :(

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  by Phillis - Zacks little sister on November 25th, 2009

• The thing with yer mom is a bit tougher. If I were in your place, I would ask her why she wanted to cause me pain. Doesn't a mom love her child enough to be happy for them when they are dating someone who makes them happy?

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  by Phillis - Zacks little sister on November 25th, 2009

• See, my mum is extremely racist and I think she feels a bit threatened that white girls tend to be a lot prettier then asian girls on average.
  
  And she is very stubborn, which is wrong to say but is a major trait that comes in asian woman.
  
  So I think I'm just going to have to accept the fact that my mum will never approve of my white girlfriends.
  
  And I have asked her what you would've asked her but she doesn't seem to get it.

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  by Awesome on November 25th, 2009

• Kind of like talking to a brick wall, isn't it! But you're so smart to have figured out early on that there is no changing people. Kudos to you!

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  by Phillis - Zacks little sister on November 25th, 2009

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• No, there are differently ethnicities is because people live in different environments where over time their bodies have changed and adapted to the situation they have lived in. Why do people living in mountains seem to be shorter then those who live on lower ground? Because they've evolved to suite their environment.
  
  There is no seperation, Anyone can move to another place anytime. Moving to different environments has been going on for centuries. The world also has different foods, Should they be seperated? No, That's why we have recipes where we mix them together.

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  by Awesome on August 30th, 2011

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• I'm guessing your white, and feel somewhat threatened.

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  by Awesome on December 29th, 2009