Should parents allow their kids to wear whatever they want?

No. Part of parenting is teaching children what is acceptable and unacceptable behavior. While it is important to let them make thier own decisions, they need to first learn how to make those decisions.

No. Often in a teens rebellion they don't understand the impact that their style will have on other people.
It can bring about extreme unwanted behavior from other people. They just think it may irritate just their parents but I've seen teachers take offense and target children who dress extreme. I've seen cops do it and other children as well. Sometimes its not just about taste, but about safety as well.

I do approve of it cause how else will she develop her own, unique style? I have given guidance up to the stage where she just didnt wear the clothes I went and buy without her. Today, with her being 15, I like her style and the way she wear her clothes. And she wear her clothes to reflect her personality. And I am proud to say she is a lovely girl. +

Yes, as long as it is modest and clean. If their choices aren't too hot they will soon hear from their friends and rethink things. :)

With all things parenting it is a gradual thing - as soon as my kids were old enough I would give them a choice; in the early stages I would offer them several pairs of socks or t shirts for them to choose from. Then I would ask them to go get some socks/ tshirt from their drawer and gradually let them choose more of what to wear.

When they went to school we would shop for their uniform together - I would make sure that what they chose was appropriate but it was their choice. It is important that kids like the things they have to wear everyday and feel that they have some control over them.

You can give kids choice and independence without giving them complete control until they are ready.

In most cases, no.

But remember clothing is important for kids. If you force them to wear what you want, they may come to resent it.

I say everything in moderation. Radical is fine, but not too radical.

Yes, but making sure it is acceptable and decent.

Depends on:

How old is the child?
Is their choice decent/offensive/appropriate?

I saw a guy wearing a t-shirt that said 'How Dare I Wear This Fucking T-Shirt In Front Of Your Goddamn Kids?' - would you allow your 15-year-old son to wear that? Some control has to be applied.

I really see no point dressing younger children, who are so hard on clothes, in anything but t-shirts and blue jeans. Formal attire is for adults and teenagers who are making the transition to adulthood.