In general, do you believe things that are done gratuitously have more value than those which are not?
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RosieGHM Jetpacker
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No. Though one can't dismiss the unslefishness of doing so.
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Such as gratuitous sex and violence in films, for example? No.
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Not sure which meaning of the word you are referring to, but if you mean the kind where it is done without thought of getting something in return, other than maybe a thank you, yes, I do, since they usually come from the heart, a place of love and empathy, caring and nurturing, hope and best wishes. Often they are just what we need but didn't know how to ask, but someone saw a need and helped out. If you mean the gratuitousness of being unnecessary or superfluous, like violence or sex as they call them in movies or books, then not at all.
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No. Thoughtfulness is always appreciated though.
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I think it depends on the circumstances. If someone has gone out of their way to add to a compliment for instance, then I would think it has more value than saying what might otherwise be considered necessary or expected. Happy Tuesday Rosie.
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