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I'd suggest pulling her off to lunch sometime (so that you guys can't get into any heated arguments) and talk to her about your anger issues and how neither of you get along. Let her know that she doesn't listen or at least you feel like she doesn't listen (which is what matters). Ask her why she's so hostile with you, see if you guys can improve on the situation. Remember that while you guys are arguing, there's not even a point in raising your voice at her if you know she won't listen so don't waste your time. You need to talk to her, mother to child in a very serious but calm manner. As for your anger, you're 17. Give yourself a little time to relax. Maybe if your environment isn't so hostile, you won't be feeling pressured and angry all of the time. I'm only recently turned 18 so I can relate to this pretty well. My mom and I had the same issues. I used to have very serious anger problems but over time my mom and I have worked out our differences and now I'm not so angry all of the time. :) Good luck to you guys. I wish for both of you to end up in a healthy, anger-free environment. Remember, let her talk when she's talking, never raise your voice, and if she interrupts you while you're talking, just try your hardest to be patient with her then later on when both of you are calmer, approach her.
Don't fight back,she will just give up fighting with herself.
Don't talk - ask questions instead and avoid WHY questions as it makes people feel as if they are responsible for something so they'll either get mad or come up with excuses.
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