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by Desiderata on November 22nd, 2009
I would say, if a valid excuse and sincere apology didn't follow immediately after, then move on. Being stepped on constantly is not acceptable, no matter what age!
by Blackberry. on November 22nd, 2009
Meh, it happens. Some people are just rude, maybe you just had a bad luck streak or something.
by AnnieB on November 23rd, 2009
It's not the first time you got stood up by the same person? I guess, that doesn't really matter.
Unless, the person has suddenly become disabled, no excuse is good enough for not picking up the phone to tell you about the change in plans.
by anon on November 22nd, 2009
I'm glad you didn't stay at home and mope. How well did you know this guy? I don't know if this helps, but I like to know the person before I accept any date. I have never been stood up, but I think it's because the guy always sounded enthused or interested in really going out. He also knew we would probably run into each other again, so if he wasn't that interested, he better not ask for the date.
by Megan on November 22nd, 2009
Aww,that's super rude,there isn't much you can do but shrug it off,drinking your problems away won't help. You should have found something else to do. Like rent a movie,order a pizza or have some friends over.
I hope things get better for you! :)
by SumoAZ on November 22nd, 2009
You deserve to be respected (no matter what your age) and you were obviously looking forward to the plans. If you choose to pursue and continue, be prepared and devise Plan B on those nights you think you have plans with this person.
by deltabtry on November 22nd, 2009
Adjust and adapt and move on, don't get commited to anyone on a casual basis in regards to dates. Always have a plan B because usually plan A will fail. Usually you can tell by listening and watching the behavior of your prospective date when you are making plans. Eyes wondering, hestitation etc., usually means she really isn't serious, therefor you shouldn't be either.
by megcham on November 22nd, 2009
Unless, you get a good excuse, that was just bad manners and who needs that around. It's good you had a plan B. But I wouldn't drown my sorrows, you got to keep alert for something better to come along.
by PrivateGomerSpooner on November 22nd, 2009
These things happen, if it is someone you know then contact them, if it was a blind date I would forget it and move on.
How do you tell if a guy is in love with you?
by I am a USN Sailor on January 19th, 2012
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When your're snuggling, have you ever accidentally kneed your man in the balls while you were trying to put your leg in between his legs?
by Shelly_R on January 11th, 2012
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Why are relationships with another the best and worst thing to experience?
by Dimstar on January 27th, 2012
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How to forget someone I love so so much from the bottom of my heart?
by Adeesha_D on January 25th, 2012
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Do you have too much time or not enough time with your s/o ?
by calmwaters1 on January 21st, 2012
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You're reading Im 33 years old and I got stood up last night. Plans were set, I received no phone or text message. I wish I could say this was the first time, but its not. Went out with a friend and had one too many drinks....honest opinions please....
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Thank you. This was yesterday, Havent heard from her since. Id say I get the point....lol
by John John on November 22nd, 2009
If she is this pathetic and can't tell you to your face, then you really don't need her. Honest.
by Desiderata on November 22nd, 2009
Thank you
by John John on November 22nd, 2009