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by Evil Pregnant Master on November 22nd, 2009
thinking i love my babys when truth be told, (i dont)
by Megan on November 22nd, 2009
Believe in someone when they say they're going to do something,or make promises.
by Jonathan on November 22nd, 2009
That most people really care! +5 Reptar. Best, Jonathan
by megcham on November 22nd, 2009
That there is still time.
by RubyReds on November 23rd, 2009
That one day I will definately be a teacher...... +
by NoWhereMan on November 22nd, 2009
Too many things to list!!
by Ailsa on November 22nd, 2009
Life, people and friends
by Gone on November 22nd, 2009
Once about a guy!
+5
What are the attributes of dysfunctional family communication patterns?
by Answerbag Staff on February 22nd, 2010
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Have you ever said:" naaah I am not even starting"
because you doubt you can do it? often/sometimes/rarely/never?
by shunyata on February 13th, 2012
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How do you / did you prepare for a "test" of anykind?
by Bornabrit on February 13th, 2012
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why cant I sit still ;-) ?
by Bornabrit on February 13th, 2012
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What are you getting ready to do in your life? Anything good?
by Bornabrit on February 13th, 2012
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I hope you aren't talking about your children
by Anonymous on December 9th, 2009
i beileve i was, but why i said that at that moment i will never know.
by Evil Pregnant Master on December 9th, 2009
I hope it was a moment in time that doesn't repeat itself.....It made me almost physically ill to think the one person in the world who should love them unconditionally and be there soft spot to fall could say something like that.
by Anonymous on December 9th, 2009
Gina, Believe it or not there are a lot of women who give birth and due to imbalances or total lack of maternal instinct, do not bond, nor love their children. My ex was one, from the day my daughter was born she wanted very little to do with her. I raised her in the home with a mother that did nothing for her and had no emotional pain when she was killed. You can't force a mother to love their kids. Just hope that dad can love them enough for two.+6
by SoulSearcher on December 9th, 2009
That's something I'd rather not even think about......I love my baby so deeply I could not imagine how I could ever handle it if something were to happen to him......I think I may die of heartbreak....God forbid. I'm terribly sorry to hear about your situation, that's awful.....I can't say I'm sorry enough.
by Anonymous on December 9th, 2009
Thanks Gina, I didn't explain that to make you think sad thoughts, I just wanted to let you know that as unbelievable as it sounds, it isn't uncommon. <smile>
by SoulSearcher on December 9th, 2009
Other factors come in as well. When child and mother are separated at birth due to what ever reason, sometimes the bond is never made. Some people are detached to most emotions we take for granted and some even just plain don't like kids. Some blame their baby's for all the wrong in their lives, this list of sadness goes on...
by Reptar on December 9th, 2009
hmmm
by Evil Pregnant Master on December 9th, 2009
those are terrible concepts......I could never dream of feeling that way about my son
by Anonymous on December 9th, 2009
its hard to bond with a child you dont get to have much time with in there first 5months of life, and what makes it hard is that most parents in the nicu or picu tend to pull themselfs away so if they loose that child they think the pain will not so bad but its the same either way. it just happends...
by Evil Pregnant Master on December 9th, 2009
What about the other baby?
by Anonymous on December 9th, 2009
Did he have problem at birth too? I remember you telling me you had 2 sons
by Anonymous on December 9th, 2009
lung problems yes and always will they both will, it comes with haven early babys but theres nothing they can do to really make me have a full term child it will never happen.so i get to deal with babys with health problems that do get stressful i remember just a month ago me and my husband where screamn at eachother cause our oldest was crying and just wouldnt stop.our youngest spent only 11days in the nicu but our oldest spent 7weeks and 1day then 5weeks in the picu, either way there was no chance at holding them after they was born there was no bond till later on by then i walked away and made my choice.
by Evil Pregnant Master on December 9th, 2009
(what has my husband scared right now, is that i might be pregnant again) personaly we both hope for the answer to be NO.
by Evil Pregnant Master on December 9th, 2009
Well I can't relate, so I can't say how it is to try and form the bond later on.....I'm sorry that you had to go through that, and I'm sorry your babies did too......If you hoe you aren't pregnant then so do I....
by Anonymous on December 9th, 2009
the only problem is if i am we will have to make a big change with things right now or the chance of haven a live birth is almost 10% to none. thats why im home till tomarrow im leaven at 5pm either way and will be back in 3week. its ok to have a pre. baby as long as it lives the hard part would be to let go (i think thats why hes scared)hes got 4 under ground as it is i think another would be einough to set someone over board.
by Evil Pregnant Master on December 9th, 2009