To guys: why do you bother with a girl if you don't want anything from her? i mean why flirt, why say things you know will sink into her head. why play with her? it can't be that much fun, can it?

well unfortunately some guys are like that. but there are also alot of very nice guys out there. if you are contintually getting this kind of guy in your life, then maybe you need to re evaluate yourself and ask what kind of guy can you date that is different than what you are currently attractive to. give some nice guy a chance instead of the bad boys. if you continue to date a bad boy, then don't expect something different to happen.

Now you know how guys feel....

Flirting is a natural part of male-female interaction. Much of it can not be helped or stopped. Both should try to make it as polite and unobtrusive as possible to insure smooth and easy social situations.

I guess some guys just find it fun. Even if it is horribly insensitive.
+5

girls do it too & you know it.

I can't understand the game, so I just stay out of it. I got tired of having my motives questioned whenever I was just trying to be friendly or do the right thing. I gave up about 35 years ago. To hell with it. +4

To ChhiTashy: why do GIRLS/WOMEN bother with a guy if they don't want anything from him? Why flirt, why say things they know will sink into his head? Why play with him? It can't be that much fun, can it?

Anyone who thinks that only men have cornered the market on this game-playing has got to be spending their very first day on planet earth.