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Being honest.
Reciprocate the friendship.
Be themselves. I wouldnt be in a relationship with them if i didnt like the way they acted.
Honesty and respect are all I ask :)
not party, not do drugs, be funny, sarcastic, smart
Don't goo way.
FROM MY MOMMA'S MOUTH!!! YOU MUST be a friend to HAVE friends! I live by it! So for a person to have a friendship with me they must first be a friend! +5
Be as good a friend to me as I am to them +5
her faithfulness and loyalty to me would do very much...that would be the things that would count for me in terms of friendship...
They don't have to do a lot. Just be real, and a sense of humour helps.
Full honesty. If I ever catch a person lying to me,
IN ANYTHING AT ALL, even the slightest thing, in this
very moment the person lost any chance of being a friend
with me. I hate liars and manipulators.
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Another thing would be engaging in contact with me,
without prompting them to do so.
If I'm the only person who calls and invites to
meet and do things and the other person never does
it Himself/Herself, there will be no friendship.
This would include things like:
If I call You, then answer. If You can't,
call me back later.
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Another thing is allowing me to be myself, not trying
to force me to do things I don't want to and if
I refuse, don't say that there is something wrong
with me through ridiculous comments.
That is any form of invalidation:
"Invalidation is to reject, ignore, mock, tease,
judge, or diminish someone's feelings. It is an
attempt to control how they feel and for how long
they feel it."
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Yet another thing would be trying to get to know me
a bit, not only "going to the same places",
partying, drinking and joking without giving
a f*** about who I really am.
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And the last thing I can think about is sharing
some common interest. If we don't have anything
to talk about, then there is not much reason to
be friends.
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That would be some of the basics.
Be tall?
be there for me when i'm feeling down.
never sit down?
Stay in touch at least and let me hear from you once in a while.
just say hi
just be nice +5
Just be there for me. To be true and loyal. Last year my family went through a trying time. It was funny to see who was there by my side, and that they actually wanted to be there.
They have to be loyal to our friendship and give as much as they take.
Be honest and open :)
+5
Loyalty is a key factor for me.
Wild and a dry sense of humor a friend who I can scream on the top of my lungs with in an crowded hallway and laugh at the weird looks we get. I found that friend its my best friend and we're just like sisters and would make a very good lesbian couple the wild part...Just be really loud and crazy that's my ideal friend and I got a lot like that
treat me with respect, be there when I need you just like I am there if you need me. Don't lie to me because then I no longer trust you and I feel let down that you lied to me. Be honest, caring, truthful
How many times have you started off on the wrong foot with someone and ended up being good friends? Found out you had a lot common, right?
by RosieGHM Jetpacker on February 1st, 2012
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How often do you speak to online friends? And how much is too much?
by Sandra_S7585 on February 4th, 2012
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what to do if you miss a friend?
by megster689 on February 1st, 2012
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Would you love me to shut up....??
by nice jugs on February 2nd, 2012
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How many people are in your "inner circle"?
by Zack on February 1st, 2012
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by Zack on November 21st, 2009