If it's an important matter, should I contact my ex-boyfriend's ex-girlfriend especially if he's withholding information?

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• Read the other comments with Jewel on this page.

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  by Indielauper on November 21st, 2009

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• I am an ex anyway. I run the risk of gaining his friendship.

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  by Indielauper on November 21st, 2009

• it concerns our health and possibly hers.

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  by Indielauper on November 21st, 2009

• Ah. Someone has an STD? For the sake of being a good egg, let her know. It may not kill her, but it might save her from one day infecting a baby. Or unknowingly sharing it with a future love.

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  by Jewel on November 21st, 2009

• YEs but he is known to manipulate. He was engaged to him but she left. He said they grew apart. Now he going to visit her cause her grandmother is dying but I don't know I should worn her because the last GF he was with I don't think he told her he has HPV cause there are no signs in men and he had sex with her without a condom.

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  by Indielauper on November 21st, 2009

• I mean he was engaged to HER.

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  by Indielauper on November 21st, 2009

• He had sex with the other one without a condom too.

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  by Indielauper on November 21st, 2009

• he falls in and out of love too. He said he fell in love with me and now he not sure. If I don't ask him questions about his past, he won't tell me but I need to know why they seperated too because when he was with me he was self-destructive. He's trying to get better but still fucks up and is secretive about information I should know about. I'm trying to be his friend but I need this information first.

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  by Indielauper on November 21st, 2009

• Indie, there is a lot here to address and it could be important. I am going to suggest that you go to this site:
  http://www.completecounselingsolutions.com/sitemap-allpages.php
  It may be able to offer more specific help, and if this isn't helpful, ask your county health office, or even call the local hospital and ask about finding some counseling regarding STD's.
  I understand your concern, but there could be legal issues here in addition to moral ones.
  Good luck.

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  by Jewel on November 21st, 2009

• Thank you.

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  by Indielauper on November 22nd, 2009

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• Then give more details! It is difficult to answer a question that isn't clear about what it is asking.

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  by Jewel on November 21st, 2009

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• but what if it concerns our health?

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  by Indielauper on November 21st, 2009

• Past is the present.

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  by Indielauper on November 21st, 2009