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by sprky777 on November 20th, 2009
Just be a friend to him while he's gone. It's nice to have contact with home. whatever happens, don't add to his stress. He is going to have a major change in behavior and personality while he is there so don't be shocked or offended, roll with it.
I know if I were in his position, I would prefer not to leave a girlfriend behind. Too much of a distraction. He has family for comfort.
When he returns you can pick up where you left off but keep in mind he won't be the same person you know now.
When he gets back you both will need to reevaluate your relationship.
by pandora on November 20th, 2009
You should both just agree to be friends till he gets back. He may not be the same person you know later and you may not be the same girl he remembers.
Be a good friend and listen to him, write to him and just try to support him as much as possible but both of you will be entering a whirlpool. You can try to hold on but you both will probably be torn apart through no fault of your own. If your relationship is meant to be it will all work out when he gets back. If you two were married my advice would be different but I've seen a lot of guys get hurt because they were distracted with love ones back home. Especially if after a few months you move on. Its healthier for him if he only has himself to worry about and not about what you may or may not be doing back home.
by StupidGirl on November 20th, 2009
RLY SRSLY? Have you seen how these guys return back home?! The best think you can do is talk him into a real job.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/americas/8227931.stm
by ♥AngelHeart♥ on November 20th, 2009
Even though you have only dated a short time, I'm sure you are able to tell if there are romantic feelings for each other. If that is the case, give him lots of encouragement and tell him how proud you are of him.
Write to him often and if he is able to talk on a cell phone, you can keep in touch that way too which is nice because you will be hearing each others voices. Give him a nice picture of yourself to take with him. I'm sure it will bring a smile to his face when he looks at you. :-)
I wish you both the best and please tell your boyfriend Thank You for what he is doing for our country.
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