by Egghead on November 20th, 2009

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My girlfriend tells me that she likes to be 'forced' to do things. I really like her alot, and I think that if I force her to do something, she will get offended and break up with me. Is there like a nice way I can do this, or some alternative?

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  • by leetmeat on November 20th, 2009

    leetmeat

    Let me let you in on a little secret that most women aren't going to ever admit; Generally speaking, women WANT to be told what to do or "forced" to do things, especially in bed. Forced is really a bad word to use as it implies that it's something done against someone's will, instructed would be a better word.
    That's not to say they want to be raped or beaten or anything like that, I mean they seek to be taken care of and their psyche and physical features are designed to get that as effectively as possible.

    Let the baaaawwwing begin.

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  • by N I C K on November 20th, 2009

    N I C K

    I wish my girlfriend was more like that. You are lucky, just don't "force her" to do anything degrading.

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  • by cold_cut on November 20th, 2009

    cold_cut

    i think what shes trying to tell you is she likes her man being protective and possessive in a healthy way. I wanted my man to do the same..n he does..it gives me assurance that he cares..ofcourse i never forced him to..in time it came naturally. :)

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  • by killdrphil - reasonable for a madman on November 20th, 2009

    killdrphil - reasonable for a madman

    You're thinking too much. She says she LIKES to be dominated so just take her for her word and trust that she means what she says. She's not gonna break up with you.
    She might if you don't do what she likes though...

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  • by Thriftymaid on November 20th, 2009

    Thriftymaid

    Don't ever force her to do anything even if she says she likes it.

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  • by randomness - is now a Maestro on November 20th, 2009

    randomness - is now a Maestro

    Ask for clarification. In what context does she like to be forced to do things? In the bedroom? In regular social situations? Clear this up with her, to avoid misunderstandings. If she means in the bedroom.... make sure you have a safe word!!

    The important thing here is that YOU need to be comfortable with this also. If you are uncomfortable with the idea, then don't do it.

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  • by StupidGirl on November 20th, 2009

    StupidGirl

    Check here:
    http://www.answerbag.com/c_view/1912
    I think it's a lot of fun with the right people.

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  • by pouncey on November 20th, 2009

    pouncey

    Just be careful when you do it.

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