by Anonymous on November 20th, 2009

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My best friend told me he loved me, but I have a boyfriend and I don't feel the same way. How do I tell him?

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  • by Anonymous on November 22nd, 2009

    Anonymous

    I think you need to sit him down and just tell him. You need to be honest and straight to the point, don't "beat around the bush" as that's not going to do anything good. And do it soon.
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  • by abhi on November 21st, 2009

    abhi

    u should talk to him and clarify very intelligently without hurting him (we will remain good friend but i don't feel love same for u like that). dear always remember one thing friends are precious so we must save our friendship. if it would not work then try to explain him about platonic friendship. it might be work......all the best

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  • by Jacques on November 20th, 2009

    Jacques

    In your other question you said you loved another girl. Yet you have a boyfriend? You should go on Oprah while you still can. Bring your best friend with you.

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  • by Self Consuming Cannibal on November 22nd, 2009

    Self Consuming Cannibal

    You just politely explain to him that you have a boyfriend and if he wants to continue being your friend he needs to respect your relationship. If he still persists, you should inform your boyfriend and have him tell your friend.

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  • by Gene H on November 22nd, 2009

    Gene H

    You are the first woman not to know that I know of. Men and women are at best dangerous friends because of just this. Get some girlfriends, dump this friend or become an acquaintance which is the most you need to be with men, and have done with it.

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  • by The Gift on November 20th, 2009

    The Gift

    tell him straight up it sucks when girls play games he'll still be your friend if you don't play games

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  • by R U Sirius on November 20th, 2009

    R U Sirius

    You did a good job phrasing it in a question.......use it.

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  • by Yours Truly on November 20th, 2009

    Yours Truly

    Just like that.."I have a boyfriend and dont feel the same way. Sorry"... If he's your best friend he'll understand.

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  • by level headed on November 20th, 2009

    level headed

    Tell him you have a boy friend. You just never thought of him in that way.

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