by mrs.lopes on November 20th, 2009

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I'm a jelouse type. girls keep trying to get with my boyfriend and they keep calling him cute and its everytime he goes out and it gets me really mad but ik he would never do anything behind me should I say something to the girls? what should I say?

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  • by anon on November 20th, 2009

    anon

    Since you say you trust him, I would just say 'thank you' to all of the compliments he receives.

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  • by Anonymous T on November 20th, 2009

    Anonymous T

    Don't do anything, just be calm and look at Your
    partner and see how He reacts. He should be able to
    deal with this Himself.
    .
    The rest is in Your mind. Jealousy is an emotion
    that says You are not sure You are secure in the
    relationship (despite saying otherwise) for
    whatever reason (which might be unrelated to the
    partner, but instead to Your past). It might
    stem from Your low self-esteem and feeling that
    there are women there who could be so much
    better than You, that they would take Him
    away from You.
    Explore Your beliefs and memories and search
    for the reason why You think You could lose Him.
    .
    You can only tell Him later, after the girls are
    gone, that You are feeling jealous (but not as if
    He's done something wrong) and He should be
    understanding and ensure You that He's there
    only for You, despite all that fuss.
    If He's doing something that bothers You, like
    allowing them to be too intimate, then tell Him
    and see how He reacts.

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  • by anguilla on November 20th, 2009

    anguilla

    "lost" is right. Since you trust your bf, just let 'em say whatever they want and do whatever they want. They still can't have HIM; YOU have him. Just smile and let it bounce off. That way you are cooler than they are. So you win all the way around.

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  • by Anonymous on November 20th, 2009

    Anonymous

    No, don't say anything to the girls because you might get in a fight. At most you should cough loudly or make your presence known in some other way.

    When he goes out just trust him, and his friends if they are decent. My friend is in a relationship, but he still gets girls hitting on him. It makes him feel really uncomfortable and he looks annoyed by the whole thing. As his friend I make sure I get between them or someone else does so he doesn't have to actually push them away or explain that he has a girlfriend (which would only be necessary if someone tried to kiss him or something).

    If you're boyfriend is a good guy then you have nothing to worry about. Just try and remember that. =D

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  • by buttkisses on November 20th, 2009

    buttkisses

    get over your jealousy, thats all you can do. The secret to that is to love yourself.

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  • by AnonymousGirl on November 20th, 2009

    AnonymousGirl

    Nothing. You'll just look like a jealous bitch if you do.

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  • by Ms.A on November 21st, 2009

    Ms.A

    I wouldn't say anything to those girls.Are ya nuts???lol!

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  • by Kimberly. on November 21st, 2009

    Kimberly.

    I know it's easier said than done bekas im the jealous type also, bt jealousy is a worthless emotion and as long as he's not flirting around stay calm :) yu should be happy tht other girls think yur guy is cutee and YUR the one with him :)

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