We're both in our early thirties. He's seeing a woman. They don't live together but have been dating for a while. We try to ignore it but we're both getting feelings for eachother. Would it be wrong to date since they're not married?

If he is just dating, he should date you too. He should, he MUST let the other woman know though.

No, just don't have sex. Learn carefully who you are dating.

I think he should break up with her before he starts dating you. I would caution you to be careful about dating people you work with, if I were you. If things do not work out, sometimes it creates problems on the job.

Good luck. +5

I agree with the other respondant that you can date; however, unless he is in a serious relationship with and/or engaged to the other person, wherein he told her it was exclusive, he doesn't need to tell her, at least not immediately. Probably best to see how it goes and who knows - if he keeps seeing both of you, maybe you will tire of that arrangement and of him, and he can continue on with the other (original) woman. However, if things develop more strongly for you and him (which it sounds like you may want), then ultimately he certainly needs to "come clean" and tell her where things stand, so that you and he can move on (up) to the next step for you both, whatever that may be. Good luck, in any case...

As long as he isn't letting her think that they're exclusive, then it's fine. She doesn't need to know that he's dating you specifically, but she does need to know he isn't taking their relationship seriously.

On the other hand, if they are in a committed long-term relationship and he's lying to her about dating other people, then yeah, that is dishonest and wrong. You should also keep in mind that if he's willing to do this to his current girlfriend, then he'll have no trouble doing it to you if you ever get serious with him.

Think about this, if her is in a active relationship and he choose to dat e you as at the time, then that mean he is hiding something and lying that also mean he will lie and hide things from you, do you really want that? My suggestion move and let someone else find you and date them.