I have been dating my girlfriend for almost 8 months and i love her alot but another crush from my past told me she is falling for me and she makes me happier than my current girlfriend...which should i choose?

I bet you just like the IDEA that somebody is falling for you, and that is what makes you "happier". If something is wrong with your relationship with your girlfriend, go ahead and break up. But I would not get in the habit of allowing my head to be turned. People sense that, and eventually you will be taken advantage of by people who enjoy manipulating you.

One question to ask yourself, she was in your past. If you were meant to be why arent you together now from your past?. Evaluate the reasons sensibly and see what conclusion you come to & see if there is any true mileage in this relationship or is it NOSTALGIA?

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I HATE GUYS LIKE YOU!!!!!!!!!

You have problem with your current Gf wihout knowing it. You don't seem to love her as you thought. If you love your GF a lot this won't happen.

Couple of good points from some of the other answers.
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If you and the "lady" from the past had been meant to be together, it would have happened before.
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I can't know but suspect that she wasn't interested before because she already had you where she wanted you, as a drooling doormat at ther feet. That jhas changed now and she does not like it.
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I also can't help the feeling she is a manipulative b----.
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You have had a good relationship for the past 8 months and you want to throw it away for something doubtful? The only good reason I can think of for breaking up with your current girlfreind is that I doubt if you are worthy of her!

These are a lot of typical, and biased answers. But I think there's a misunderstanding: you can date whoever you want, you can't help your emotions, but just don't lead anyone on or cheat, just tell whoever what you plan to do. Don't let people make you feel guilty for liking someone.

Hello Fist of all If you rely Loved the girlfriend you have now you would not even care if someone you had a crush in the pass comes around.Because if you were to be you would have been with here and not with the girl friend you have now.so move on live he pass in the pass and think of the now..

Don't be stupid like I was. Stay with the 8-monther. Otherwise you'll get in a pickle and end up hurting both of them AND yourself.

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only you can answer that you have 8 months in with your girlfriend and the other in your words is your past somethings in your past are better left there.and maybe the 1 from your past just don't want you to be happy and knows that you are with the 1 your with.

what the fuck is wrong with boys theses days see this is why they make you so madd they brake your heart for someone in the past its stupid she is your girl now there is no reason you should go back to someone else thats just so stupid im sorry to say but if you break your current girlfriends heart for some other bitch ...then you have some problems

dude really take a night and just sit there thimking which one you feel better with and which one makes you feel better. basically im tellin you to listen to your heart it will guide you hope this helps

if you'll gonna give in to the temptation, without any reasonable reasons against your current gf, coz the reason that you got is dam, if you'll gonna use it to break up with her...i would say you are a man, or your not even worthy to be labeled with the name man, coz if your gonna do that,that would just prove that you are a person who got no BACKBONE...you're frail, you're not TRUSTWORTHY, you're nothing.just like anybody else.

Yu already KNOW the answer to this question! Yur jz lookin for people to tell yu what yu already kno. Yu've been with yu current gf for 8 months and yu really love her so stay with her and dont do anything with tht other girl! Put yurself in her position, what if she was the one in yur situation, yu wouldnt like it too much huh?

Come on dude! You said you are "in love" with your girlfriend that you have invested 8 months with. You fell in love during that time. That tells you all you need to know. If you are even asking this question then you have a different understanding of the word "love" than most I think.

You love you girl friend... to mean your being a bit selfish you want what you can't have I may have it worng.

You can't love your girl friend and some other gir you CAN'T want two girls. What if you get with this girl and she is not what you though? Then you gave up on your girl friend after 8 mouths.

think of it this way which one has been there for u the longest and u said that u love her that means u would go to the ends of earth for her and u cant leave all of that for a crush that didnt even like u till u got a girlfriend and u spent 8 months with her dont forget all of that for this crush

compare a crush to love which one is more important to you