by Apple Kiss on November 19th, 2009

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I am 28 yr and married for 8 years having 2 kids. Recently i fell in love with a young lady who is 7 years younger than me. I proposed to her, but she resist be because i am married? What should i do? I love her... plz help

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  • by Galeanda on November 19th, 2009

    Galeanda

    You had no right to ask her to marry you since you aren't available. What you should do is make a go of your marriage the best that you can or with good reasons, end it. Finish one relationship before starting a new one. The taint will always be there on your new relationship if it didn't start out honest and unencumbered, instead it is tarnished, full of lies and covering up. That's no way to get to know someone new, with lies and stories, excuses and betrayal. And is that what you want to tell the new person, that you are good at lying and not to be trusted? If a marriage isn't about being fully trustworthy, built on a foundation of solid truth and respect, then it's doomed to repeat failure.

    Maybe if your marriage is really ruined forever, it would be best if you moved on from both of them, learned more about yourself and tried to improve yourself. Then when you are ready to start over, it can be done on better solid footing.

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  • by Grant aka Guybrush Threepwood on November 19th, 2009

    Grant aka Guybrush Threepwood

    well for one you're a cheating dog & i hope you get exactly what you deserve & both women leave you & you live a lonely life.

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  • by Wide Awake @ has closing date woo hoo on November 19th, 2009

    Wide Awake @ has closing date woo hoo

    What should you do?
    Decide which person you want to be married to, and stop being an incredibly inconsiderate cad.

    Sounds like the woman you proposed to has a lot of sense. Can you buy some somewhere?

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  • by Smart2 is back! Did you miss me? on November 19th, 2009

    Smart2 is back!  Did you miss me?

    sounds like the 21 year-old IS smarter than a fifth grader (you!)...

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  • by DaniMac on November 19th, 2009

    DaniMac

    You don't love her, you've just forgotten that you love your wife.

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  • by Jonathan on November 19th, 2009

    Jonathan

    Grow up Dumb Dumb!

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  • by 14 kt gold on November 20th, 2009

    14 kt gold

    I feel bad for your wife that you don't respect yourself or her enough to put the time you invested in an affair in her. The whole attraction to an affair is the secret once it is found out the attraction is gone then run back to your wife begging for another chance. By then you have destroyed the love and trust. Do yourself a favor don't throw away the best thing in your life on a piece of behind. And for the other woman reading this if he will cheat with you he will cheat on you. Once a cheater always a cheater. If, your not happy end it for that reason not because of someone else.

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  • by randomness - is now a Maestro on November 20th, 2009

    randomness - is now a Maestro

    ALWAYS break off one relationship before beginning another. Cheating is not on.

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  • by Z-Weezy on November 19th, 2009

    Z-Weezy

    Did you know that it is illegal to be married to more than one person at a time? Weird, huh? Stop being a loser, and stay together for the kids. Once you have kids, you are giving up your right to personal happiness in favor of theirs.

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