by NoWhereMan on November 19th, 2009

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What is going on - or not; that causes so many married men to view porn on the Internet?

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by Blackberry. on November 20th, 2009
Human nature and sexual repression is what's going on. Everyone knows your sex life dies when you get married, and do you expect men to only be attracted to one women just because they sign a dumb piece of paper?
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- Hey! Hey! Blackberry tells it - just like it is! +6
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  by NoWhereMan on November 20th, 2009
- Fuck yeah.
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  by Symbeline on November 21st, 2009
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by Anon on November 20th, 2009
Visual stimulation helps one masturbate. We need to masturbate for a few health reasons.
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- Absolutely right! Sexual repression has caused more problems than some people realise. Look at the activities of some RC Priests!! +6
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  by NoWhereMan on November 20th, 2009
- I wasn't even thinking about it that far. I was just considering the reduced chance of prostate cancer, urinary tract infections etc from regular masturbation.
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  by Anon on November 21st, 2009
- What a great reason to continue! And medically sound as well! Who needs a wife then? They wouldn't 'do it' often enough to be of health assistance.
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  by NoWhereMan on November 22nd, 2009
- Exactly. In the stereotypical 'sexless marriage', lacking masturbation could be considered a health risk.
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by Moongrim on November 20th, 2009
Because they're human.

Men are visual critters. So we like to look.

And it ain't a sin. Only those who have a bottle of snakeoil to sell say it is.
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- More pearlsof wisdom from my mate. +6
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by happiness on November 19th, 2009
Because the internet provides porn, most of the time for free.
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- porn limits the usefulness of internet by people who are trying to keep themselves and their families away from this sin
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  by iraq on November 19th, 2009
- Don't project your own failings onto the rest of us, Iraq.
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  by Moongrim on November 20th, 2009
- r u telling me u dont want to keep your kids away from adult shits
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  by iraq on November 20th, 2009
- Yep! I suppose anything which is free, attracts! +6
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by Anonymous T on November 19th, 2009
Where does this claim come from?
Do You have any scientific studies to prove this?
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- Just talk to married men. I worked with over a hundred. Listen to the media chat shows. See just how many sites there are on line. (You don't have to watch them.) This is a humanistic issue not something that required scientists. But research evidence does point to the fact that the vast majority of Hookers clients are married men. All part of the same phenomena.
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  by NoWhereMan on November 19th, 2009
- Whooops! +6.
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  by NoWhereMan on November 19th, 2009
- Whooops???
  .
  Humanistic issues can be studied too.
  What I mean, is where do You have the statistics
  on that. It might be that only married men in Your
  area or Your social circle view porn on the internet.
  .
  But I would be more into saying that men watch porn
  regardless of their marital status.
  .
  And if I were to find some reasons why they do this.
  Because it satisfies their fantasies, which they can't
  or even wouldn't want to satisfy with their wives.
  The same goes for hookers. Ever heard of the
  Madonna/Whore Complex?:
  http://primal-page.com/madonna.htm
  .
  Besides the sexual fantasies involved in porn are often
  by definition unrealistic, cause I don't think there are
  many women who would want to (or even be able to, as She
  has other things to do) regulary and secretly prepare for
  so much details that go behind the scenes. Not mentioning
  these actors take breaks and repeat the scenes, so that
  it looks "perfect".
  Not mentioning that porn sex is created mostly for the
  guys pleasure, not the woman's. It may involve humiliation
  and other aspects. A similar thing goes with the Hookers
  to a lesser degree.
  .
  But I'd say much of this is around the dissonance that
  a wife can't be a "whore", and a "whore" can't be a wife.
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  by Anonymous T on November 19th, 2009
- Quote:- But I would be more into saying that men watch porn
  regardless of their marital status.Unquote. This may be so but the question was:- What is going on - or not; that causes so many married men to view porn on the Internet? Emphasise on 'So Many married men'
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  by NoWhereMan on November 20th, 2009
- I explained it to You below the sentence You quoted.
  I'm not sure it's this reason, but that would be my
  first guess. If You disagree, tell me why and I'll
  try to reanalyze this, according to Your answer.
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  by Anonymous T on November 20th, 2009
- No Anon. It's no big deal. Thanks.
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  by NoWhereMan on November 20th, 2009
- As You want.
  Though I will add I don't think the mere fact someone
  is watching porn is a big deal.
  .
  But it can be a big deal if it's interfering with the
  rest of Your life, if You don't have the control over
  it and don't have a realistic approach to it. Cause it
  can become addictive and it might shape people's
  personalities in complex ways.
  .
  Though even in those cases that it can have negative influence
  when abused, I rather see it as a symptom, rather than the
  cause. A symptom that COULD in certain situations aggravate
  some problems.
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  by Anonymous T on November 20th, 2009
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by Cyanotic Wasp on November 19th, 2009
For the same reason they climb mountains: "Because it's there!"
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- Very philosophical. And kinda PC. ? From a man's point of view of course. lol! +64U
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by N I C K on November 21st, 2009
Mass hysteria and a decline in morality.

I used to watch it too (just lesbian porn though, nothing disgusting) until I realized how wrong it was.

How would you like that to be your sister? There's no excuse for it, that is abominable especially if the man watching it is married.
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- wow, you're a complete hypocrite
  PS, I wasn't the one who DR'ed you
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  by Violet on November 28th, 2009
- Why am I a hypocrite? I USED to watch it but I stopped because i know it's soooo wrong. It's a sin against your own sister.
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  by N I C K on November 28th, 2009
- Then you shouldn't say anything about people who do watch porn.
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  by Violet on November 29th, 2009
- I know it's wrong, that's why I stopped. Of course I want to help other people to stop. Would you like people watching your sister degrade herself so they can masturbate?
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  by N I C K on November 29th, 2009
- I don't have a sister. If I did, what would it matter?
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  by Violet on November 29th, 2009
- Okay well think of your closest female friend. Don't you love her like a sister? Would you want her to be humiliated and degraded on the internet and have thousands of strange men use her to masturbate?
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  by N I C K on November 29th, 2009
- "humiliated and degraded on the internet and have thousands of strange men use her to masturbate"
  that is YOUR opinion,. You're not a women, and you're not a model, porn star, AND you don't masturbate to those women.. so you really can't accurately judge what the men are thinking, or how the women feel.
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  by Violet on November 29th, 2009
- So it's not humiliating to have multiple men ejaculate on your face, call you a bitch and a slut, slap you and beat you, have anywhere from 3 to 20 men in one day penetrate you, and catch every STD known to man? Yeah that's not degrading at all, that's exactly what every little girl wants to do for a living when she grows up.
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  by N I C K on November 29th, 2009
- and what about MEN in porn, Playgirl?
  The porn industry regularly checks for STD's, and paperwork is mandatory to work.
  If parents are doing their job, their chidren shouldn't know what porn is!
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  by Violet on November 29th, 2009
- Who care about STDs, you're missing the point! Don't you see how degrading that is??? Who would want their little girl to end up in that garbage?
  You see the way women are treated in the porn industry, if you don't you're in denial. That is wrong!
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  by N I C K on November 29th, 2009
- again, and what about MEN in porn, Playgirl?
  No, I do not see any part of porn degrading. I think it's a freedom, right, and liberating for women.
  If you think it's degrading, then you have helped "degrade" women, by watching porn. That makes you a hypocrite, and a person who degraded women.
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  by Violet on November 29th, 2009
- How can you say that? You actually believe that women are being "liberated" when they're in porn. What planet are you on? They are humiliated and treated like DIRT, and men think that is exciting. That is disgusting. I'm not even talking about softcore porn here (which is what playgirl is), that is still wrong. But this isn't just topless girls, this is pure filth. When men watch women lowered and treated like that, they start to see women as low, as something they just use to get off on. If you think that is liberating women then you really need a wake-up call.
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  by N I C K on November 29th, 2009
- And I know I have been disgusting in watching porn. But I stopped a long time ago and I've felt remorse and repented. And I can gladly say that I never masturbated to anything other than softcore porn.
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  by N I C K on November 29th, 2009
- again, and what about MEN in porn, Playgirl?
  So, you're making women seem less important than men. I need a wake up call? lol, you're just living in 1800, or on Iran.
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  by Violet on November 29th, 2009
- How is that making women seem less important than men? I actually value women, that's why I don't want to see them be degraded and humiliated.
  Have you ever seen the way women are treated in porn? it's heinous.
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  by N I C K on November 29th, 2009
- Yea, I watch women in porn on a daily basis.
  You're just pissing women off by telling THEM that THEY are being degraded or humiliated.
  Also, and again, what about MEN in porn, Playgirl? Are they not degrading themselves?
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  by Violet on November 29th, 2009
- So you have no problem with watching women treated that way?
  If you had a daughter would you want her to do that?
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  by N I C K on November 29th, 2009
- that is none of your business, and you are judging again. If you don't like it, get out of America
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  by Violet on November 29th, 2009
- That is not in any way judging anyone. I asked two completely fair questions. You have called me "perverted" and "disgusting" for believing in a lifelong monogamous relationship, while you will notice that I made no such remarks about you even though you are defending hardcore pornography. But I'm the one judging.
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  by N I C K on November 30th, 2009
- No, you're "perverted" and "disgusting", for thinking of your gf, as a sister. Would you have sex with your sister? EW!
  I never said I didn't judge. But since YOU judge, you're sinning.
  I never said you were judging me, you're judging porn, porn stars, people who watch porn, nude models..
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  by Violet on November 30th, 2009
- No I'm not. I'm saying that porn is wrong because it hurts people. It hurts the people that are in it and it hurts the people that watch it.
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  by N I C K on November 30th, 2009
- and that is your profession opinion, since you are an expert in porn..
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  by Violet on November 30th, 2009
- Ask anybody that's not immersed in sexual immorality and they will tell you the same thing.
  These women are treated like pieces of meat, like dogs. They could be doing something with their brains for a living, they could be raising kids, but instead they're getting slapped around for men's enjoyment. And you support that!
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  by N I C K on November 30th, 2009
- sigh.. you really know nothing about the porn industry. They are acting. It isn't real. They make 6 figure salaries, Jenna Jameson is a multimillionaire. There women are in charge. So hell ya I support that!
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  by Violet on November 30th, 2009
- Those are a rarity. Most women in the porn industry earn nothing but emotional scars. It is sickening. You only hear the ones that get really famous and make it big.
  What about this beautiful young lady that got out and is now a baptized Christian?
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ReXkySP9ZZc
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  by N I C K on November 30th, 2009
- she is on hard core drugs. I can tell from her eyes! She's also still a bisexual
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  by Violet on November 30th, 2009
- check out her myspace page
  http://www.myspace.com/nadiastylesxxx
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  by Violet on November 30th, 2009
- That's not run by her. Of course they're going to still run her site and sell her stuff. They will be very VERY sorry however for doing that to one of God's daughters. See her Wikipedia page:
  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nadia_Styles
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  by N I C K on November 30th, 2009
- She's NOT still a bisexual, she's not doing that stuff anymore. SHE WAS BAPTISED and cleansed of her sins. She was even crying when she went down in the water, that's how happy she was to have that horrid life behind her!
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LndgCcfm34I
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  by N I C K on November 30th, 2009
- lol, that's hilarious
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  by Violet on November 30th, 2009
- What's hilarious?
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  by N I C K on November 30th, 2009
- I just finished masturbating with my trinity rabbit vibrating dildo deluxe, to double anal porn : )
  Nighty night.
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  by Violet on December 1st, 2009
- Violet that is disgusting. If you have to do that, don't you at least have fingers that work?
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  by N I C K on December 1st, 2009
- lol, fingers ain't shit compared to a rabbit
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  by Violet on December 2nd, 2009
- If you have a boyfriend you're fornicating with why would you need to masturbate in unnatural ways? I think you might suffer from a sexual addiction.
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  by N I C K on December 2nd, 2009
- lol, me, and a billion other humans?
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  by Violet on December 2nd, 2009
- instead of looking at porn, just think about your boyfriend. Don't watch that disgusting, immoral trash.
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  by N I C K on December 2nd, 2009
- stop telling me what to do Nick.. or I'll tell YOU who YOU should be and what you should do.
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  by Violet on December 2nd, 2009
- Nick: What did you mean by the "just lesbian, nothing disgusting" comment? Is lesbian porn less of an attack on your morals than straight porn...or are you just into the homosexual porn that is why you didn't watch straight porn?
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  by ExactlyTwentyLetters on December 11th, 2009
- No I consider ALL porn immoral, even the stuff like Maxim. I just think that lesbian porn was less gross and less harmful than hardcore porn.
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  by N I C K on December 11th, 2009
- Married men who view porn usually do it in secret. It is done in secret because they know that their partner would have a negative reaction to it. This secrecy breaks the honesty in marriage and threatens the relationship. Men would be better served putting that energy (an in some cases money) into their marriage sex life. Unfortunately most take the cowards way out and sit in front of a screen alone and watch a woman who wouldn't look twice if not for money.
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by Ray Del Sol on November 20th, 2009
They like it! Newsfalsh: women watch it too.
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- I'm told women watch it to. +6
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by Prunesquallor on November 20th, 2009
Most men like looking at porn.
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- Hey! Direct and straight to the point P. And TRUE! +6
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by HoboJoe on November 19th, 2009
I am so naive. Is there porn on the internet?
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- Joe! You get a +6 . No further comment. lol!
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by Moley the contrary female dragon on November 19th, 2009
Lack of excitement in their lives. unrealistic expectations,failure to communicate in their marriage( I do not blame one partner for this)
I believe total honesty about your needs is vital if both parties are to be content.
Compromise is needed. No two people will always have exactly the same needs and wants. Anything not actually distasteful to one partner should be possible. I firmly believe not enough open communication takes place.
Also to view porn is fun! if it is consensual adult sex that is portrayed.(More fun if viewed WITH the partner of course.)
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- Thanks Moley my friend. +6
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by blabbermouth on December 11th, 2009
pissy uptight wives, lol
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by Yahoo Answers Is A Fraud on November 21st, 2009
Because they find it fascinating.
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- It sure is. And some stuff is really gross! +6
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by Stranger in a Strange Land on November 21st, 2009
Men are visually oriented. It just means that he is male. +4
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by iraq on November 19th, 2009
side effect of cevilization which needs spirtual development.
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- And you've got the cure?
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  by Moongrim on November 20th, 2009
- no, all of us need spirtual inhancement especially you moongrim
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  by iraq on November 20th, 2009
- Iraq. Spiritual enhancement doesn't mean people denying their NATURAL NEEDS! +6 because I don't like DR's. You are entitled to your opinion. Even if you are wrong! LOL!
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  by NoWhereMan on November 20th, 2009
- This seems to me an answer more than a comment, thanks for back up
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by winkie on November 19th, 2009
I believe your answer is hidden in the question.
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- Hey! A deep and clever insight. +6 winkie
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  by NoWhereMan on November 19th, 2009
- Sharp as a wooden spoon, me.
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  by winkie on November 20th, 2009
- No flies on you winkie. Have you been there? Like the marriage thing? If not, your insight is quite profound. Love your new title!
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  by NoWhereMan on November 20th, 2009
- Thanks, I quite like it myself, it was the biggest change I could bring myself to make for you ;-) I've never been married, but I know plenty of people who are, and perhaps that's why I don't want to go down that route myself. No offence meant to anyone by saying that though, it's just a personal opinion and I respect that others have different opinions.
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  by winkie on November 20th, 2009
- Such wisdom. x geoffjring@talktalk.net
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  by NoWhereMan on November 20th, 2009
- Are you looking for marriage guidance advice? I'm afraid I might not be a very good person to give you some (ahem). Then again...oh dear, I'm always getting myself into trouble, you'd be better to steer clear of me I think.
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  by winkie on November 20th, 2009
- LOL!! LOL!! ROFLMAO
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  by NoWhereMan on November 20th, 2009
- It strikes me, young man, that you're capable of getting into just as much trouble as I am.
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  by winkie on November 20th, 2009
- You better believe it doll!
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  by NoWhereMan on November 20th, 2009
- In that case, maybe it's me who should be steering clear, I cause enough trouble for myself already. I really wonder if it's a genetic thing. Sorry guv, bit of trouble, spot of bother, can't help it, it's me genes.
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  by winkie on November 20th, 2009
- Cor blimey mate! Wot a bover you sand. Giv us a kiss an ile tel yer wot went wrong. Stone the bleedin crows!
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  by NoWhereMan on November 20th, 2009
- Ha ha, you really speak like that don't you? I can't do it too soon now can I? That would look overly keen and I have to be cool.
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  by winkie on November 20th, 2009
- B******s! Or 'round things' to you. And no I don't speak like that. I'm quite articulate young lady I’ll have you know. Dont yer know.
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  by NoWhereMan on November 20th, 2009
- Very Paul Merton. I'm only teasing, lovely one, I'm sure you're very well spoken. You are a knight, after all, and I don't think you get many Cockney knights. Take Boris for example, he's a knight of the metropolis and he's no slouch when it comes to pronunciation.
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  by winkie on November 20th, 2009
- Just seen your photi. I just knew you were a red head! I've known you in a previous life. Your pretty face is so familiar somehow. Not joking. You've even bought chavy crocs like did a few weeks ago. lol! Mine of course are blue. Me being a man and all that deary. Use em for just slipping out into the garden 'When I want to be alone darlings!' Wouldn't be seen dead in them in the street.
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  by NoWhereMan on November 20th, 2009
- I've already admitted to being a red head on AB so I'm not very impressed by that! What was I in a previous life? I've always been interested to know. That's my second pair of chavy crocs, but unlike the first pair (blue, faux crocs) the pink ones are real Crocs. I agree that they're not the most elegant things to put on the feet, but they're perfect for taking offshore because they weigh next to nothing. The soles of mine are covered in diesel and grease, sadly.
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  by winkie on November 20th, 2009
- No offence croc girl. Remember you saying you were pale of skin. Can't remember you saying you were a red head. But Hey! Ho! Want to buy a parrot. Norwegian Blue. Lovely plumage.
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- The plumage don't enter into it, it's stone dead!
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by ExactlyTwentyLetters on December 11th, 2009
because of ugly women in real life?
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- Really? I thought it was because wives don't come across often enough once they have the ring on their finger! lol!
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by alphasoder on November 20th, 2009
porn has bad name but it does have a place in marriage if you let it you wouldnt believe in the decrease in your husband need for porn if you watched it with him it kinda loses it appeal after awhile but you have to careful because you might find out that you like it too
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