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Forget finding a girl friend. Instead, make friends with girls. Be a friend. DO NOT act desperate. That is the quickest turn-off.
If doing it this way is just not possible, try one of the online dating sites. And if that fails, try an old fashioned marriage broker.
Good luck, and remember that you are OK alone if this is how it works out. It is true somehow, that once you stop looking, the person of your dreams will drop into your arms.
Get over yourself and get interested in someone else. Make the effort to find out what another person is like. Try it at work with co-workers. Get some confidence and you'll suddenly find more available women who will return your interest.
You must learn to accept the Laws of Intergenderdynamics.
1st Law: You can't win.
2nd Law: You can't even break even
3rd Law: You can't get out of the game
Once you're OK with how the world actually works, life will become much easier for you.
Good luck
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I suggest just get out there. Tis hard but you never know if those girls are just with their friends. Live a little dude and get out there :D
get a little drunk go to a local bar and flirt with some chicks, don't let them come to you, be assertive.
Life is short so make it count.
be confident, assertive, and pursue the girls that you normally don't go for to mix it up. it's okay to be 24 and never have had a gf, it's hard to meet people. When you approach a girl you like try to strike up a conversation about what she likes, and her interests. If she likes romantic movies, suggest that you take her out to a new romantic flick etc. If she doesn't follow up, she's not into you and you move on. If she agrees, play it cool and be a gentleman during your date. Don't be too interested, don't call her every hour or text her every 5 minutes. In the beginning always give her time to think about whether or not she wants to date you and be charming when you do call.
Depression ended my relationship...
by Daniel_Garcia on November 8th, 2010
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Do you get depressed over not finding anybody?
by hallagan on November 6th, 2010
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Girls: Why wont some of you go out with a man who is shorter than you? Why do girls have this phobia?
by Retroscape on November 15th, 2010
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Why would a man leave a woman who works for a child abusing methwhore who lives off the government?
by SageFlower on November 20th, 2010
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how do i get over a guy who rejected me
by Emaleelong on October 26th, 2010
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You're reading Im 24 and never had a g/f People tell me to go out to places. nothing happens cause all the girls are with someone. people say let girls come to you. Girls never come to me dont even look at me. What else am i suppose to do? anyone please help me!
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@Jewel - I agree with everything up to your last sentence.
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While it is true that some people need to quit 'trying too hard', the notion that love will just drop into ones lap is patent nonsense.
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Without at least some effort, NOTHING will happen. You can spend an infinite number of nights at home on Answerbag and Love will *never* find you.
by Old School on November 15th, 2009
Ah, too true. Thank you for clearing this up.
by Jewel on November 15th, 2009