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Everyone is different and no one is the same. Some people will look for looks first and then personality. While some may look for them the other way around.
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I think it is different for everyone. I think we all have our own likes and dislikes and points of interest in a partner.
I think while a man is looking for the visual,first,then personality(for those not looking for a long term relationship but a fling,etc)Women might be just the same,but on a different level or wavelength,I can only add my opinion as a male.
i think that's generalising far too much. men don't think one way about this and women don't think the other. Personally, i think you need the looks for the initial attraction then personality makes it or breaks it.
I believe each of us has our own standards, which are a combination of looks and personality and brains and everything else. The proof that these standards are unique to each person is that we don't all go for the same partners. Visual attraction is important but even there we have to qualify. For example, you might be interested in a partner who is a basketball player as opposed to a swimming-suit model. Which "visual" do we consider? Or someone who gets good grades may be more important than an athlete. All our standards are unique...and, if the evidence is accurate, ever changing.
looks fade and as a relationship deepens inner traits matter most
I think its different for everyone. I think that there are proportionally more men than women that are visually attracted first, and I think there are more women than men that are initially attracted to personality, but there are always exceptions to both of these.
I honestly find your question a bit confusing. You're stating an observation in the FIRST part and then, what????? Espousing it in the SECOND part?????
Men are more accepting of physical flaws in a potential mate than women.
It wasn't always the case, but years of feminist media have swung the balance around.
Dr. Morlenheim
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You're reading Men and women are visually attracted to the opposite sex. Both also look for what's inside, personality when looking for a mate. I don't think it's different for men and women. What do you think?
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Very true, Finny! +6
by Millenium - The Mysterious M. . . GONE! on November 16th, 2009
GREAT ANSWER!
by blondie44 on November 16th, 2009
Thanks guys :)
by Anonymous on November 16th, 2009