by sugamama24 on November 14th, 2009

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If you are pregnant but your man left you but he didnt know what should you do?

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  • by BigDaddyBS on November 27th, 2009

    BigDaddyBS

    If you parted amicably, or even mad at each other, you should tell him. That child deserves to know who their father is, and the father, while they may not "deserve" it, should know they have a child in the world.

    Now, if the father is abusive, if he is trouble, maybe you don't tell him NOW, but when the child starts asking... By the same token, sometimes news like this makes some men "grow up". In THAT case, it's up to you.

    Something to think about... There are a LOT of inherited health issues. Leaving one side of the child's family out of the equation may leave them (and others) wondering where some issues they may have came from. And KNOWING the father's health history, including his family's, may help prepare, prevent, and warn you (and the child), in the long run.

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  • by wholahay16 on November 16th, 2009

    wholahay16

    you should call him up and tell him your pregnant and if he denies it and wants a dna test which is about 700 and it comes back as his he as to pay for the test and if he still wants to be difficult take his ass to court and file for child support

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  • by Omar Little on November 27th, 2009

    Omar Little

    Let him know, not for money, not for him, not for you, for your child's sake.
    Only the most despicable human being would deliberately remove the other parent from their child's life, don't let such a ghastly thing happen to your child.

    Remember, it's not about your love for him, it's about your love for your child, that's why you want them to know their father.

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  • by Shelly on November 27th, 2009

    Shelly

    You need to tell him out of respect for him! He may decide to be a big part of your childs life! I have meet many men who have found out years after their child has been alive and as happy and excited they became to finding this information out it broke their heart because the woman didn't tell them when they should have.. I feel every man has a right to know that they have created life! Then they will decide what they will do but at least you told them

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  • by JulieA on November 22nd, 2009

    JulieA

    tell him for sure .. then deciede whats best for you .. been there not an easy one .. depends on so many things .. there is no right or wrong but what is best for you .. I was so unsure at the time .. but did what was best for me .. but you do have to live with yourself .. do hope everything works out for you . Luv Jue x

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  • by Thriftymaid on November 16th, 2009

    Thriftymaid

    tell him

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  • by Killaxx3 on July 26th, 2010

    Killaxx3

    ii WOULD TELL HiiM NOT NECESSERALY SO WE CAN GET BACK JUST SO THAT HE KNOWS ND SO HE CAN BE THERE FOR HiiS BABY

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