Is it wrong for a woman to watch porn to help get aroused. I'm married , but after a long time, it's hard to keep the spark alive and need some help. I hope this doesn't sound too terrible

I don't think it is wrong but what are you going to use the porn for? To watch by yourself to masturbate to, to watch in order to get you revved up, to watch for ideas (pure research!) or to watch with your SO?
Good luck.

I thinks its okay.

I'm a bloke, I know what you mean, I think. I've watched porn, maybe the wrong ones but, they don't seem to get me going as I have done the things they show. Between you and me, I sometimes wonder if we changed places, would that be a turn on? Thinking about the preparations, dressing, colouring etc, could be a turn on before arranging how thye act was going to be performed. Hmmmmmm, worth thinking about eh???

ask yourself thies questions first:
1.is this research reasons, aka.. positions, dress, techniuqe, ideas.
2.are we watching this together?
3. wil this affect our marriage, addiction- leads to cheating, or watching alone and hiding it from the other. that alone can make your problem worse cuz now your out of the picture and have become second to porn being no. 1!!
4. if all the above answers outcomes are A ok :) then what kinda porn will be suited best for us?
i suggest educational, i have spent my time ( im single) watching this and for my many girlfriends it has helped us learn new ways to arrous each other and solve our problem of me, or her not getting aroused. it showed new ideas but also showed us how to perform the new ideas and kept the adult porn fantasy out of the picture :)
good luck

no there is nothing wrong with it tell your spouse what you need to spark it back up again

no i think it could help in the bedroom as you can incorporate things from it i.e reenact scenes from it trying new things, its ok for a man to watch so why not a female, what happened to equal rights

i don't think that there is anything wrong with it at all ... sounds like a great idea actually ... at least you are identifying that there is a problem and you are working for a solution ...

It doesn't sound terrible at all and no, I don't think there is anything wrong with viewing porn to get in the mood.