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by Anonymous on November 11th, 2009

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I've been messing around wit this guy for 3 yrs.he recently forced himself on me..we play around when havin sex but this time was different I cried afterward and didn't say anything to him since it happened..why would he do that..do u think that's rape?

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  • by turbowray on January 11th, 2010

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    May I ask what you mean by play around when having sex, do you mean bondage, role playing? IF the playing around was that extreme, he may not have realized in the heat of the moment that you were no longer playing the part if you know what I mean. I am only asking because you did not say we play around which indicates that you just have sex, you said we play around WHEN we have sex. I am not doubting your feelings they are real and what you feel is real, I just wanted to clarify that's all hon. What exactly made this different hon? Have you role played before with force from him but this was a different kind of force that scared you? Just trying to see the whole pic and I am not, I repeat not taking his side, I am a woman that takes rape seriously, not like dumbo that answered before me saying watch out for certain types of women. I am married and there was a time where we were right there and I was dying just dying for it, and his back started to hurt, well just because i was right there, didnt give me the right to cross that line and say tough crap and cradle him, so that guy is full of crap ,anyone can stop at anytime even when it is THAT TIME lol.

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  • by Fsudpboy on January 7th, 2010

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    Its not rape if you didn't say anything or try to stop it before things got out of hand. He was just probably a bit aggressive and perhaps you should have said something like calm down instead of just keeping quite and crying like a baby aftwerward. I am so sick of some of you women crying rape so easily nowadays just cos some of you have rape fantasies (disgusting)!! I know some girls who have told me they do fantasize about it.

    But its not funny when they lie about it cos they put some innocent people in trouble and ruin their lives. There are many rape cases that have been overturned thanks to better DNA technology or because the "victim" later had a conscience and confessed the truth, but this is after the poor fellow has spent a good portion of their lives in jail for nothing. For goodness sake, if you don't wanna have sex with somebody then stop getting naked with them in bed or having foreplay cos you're leading up to sex and you know it.

    Stop fooling yourself and the other person by sending mixed messages then cry rape afterwards like you're some innocent child who didn't have the common sense to know what you were starting. Its so annoying and not funny at all. You don't set your bed on fire then expect your room not to burn and cry like a baby when it does. Better make sure you wanna burn the room when you set the bed on fire!!! Don't act foolish, be smart!!!

    An advice to guys. Beware of women who are quick to cry wolf. Avoid them at all cost cos they will put you in trouble with their gift of spinning the truth. And if you're ever unlucky to marry them, they'd be the first to hit you, then call the police and spin it around. What's moree unfortunate is how society give them the benefit of doubt without even making effort to seek the truth. What a shame, I hate injustice of any kind.

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  • by nada on November 11th, 2009

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    Of course it is rape if you didn't consent to it. It is not uncommon for the victim of rape to know or be in a relationship with the rapist.

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  • by Catherine on November 27th, 2009

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    If you don't want to have sex with him and he forces you to do it it is rape.

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  • by Anonymous on November 11th, 2009

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    I'm just lost at this moment...but thank you..its very hard accepting..that's all..

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  • by curlysue on November 27th, 2009

    curlysue

    If you told him NO its rape.whether or not you fooled around with him before.

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  • by Y I EYES YAE on May 10th, 2010

    Y I EYES YAE

    sounds like rape to me. the words focred and cried gave it away. stay strong.

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  • by Mr. Bean is a superhero on January 11th, 2010

    Mr. Bean is a superhero

    IF you did not permiss it... that's rape... but since it's voluntary... it's not.

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  • by stumpy987 on February 26th, 2010

    stumpy987

    yes it is rape because u said no and he keept on going so yea that is totally rape

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  • by LEO on January 4th, 2011

    LEO

    Unwanted sex is unwanted even by a husband. Rape is unwanted sex and husbands can be imprisone for unwanted sex...handcuff him to your steering wheel strip him bare and drive his azz to the mall parking lot in daylight this fukker needs a vigilante lesson the law doesn't support women..DO IT! payback is best!

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