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by Lado on November 11th, 2009

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Reply from Girls and Experienced Persons needed: I tried to have anal sex with my Girl-friend but she refuses and says it pains. How to stimulate her for Anal Sex? I want to test it. My penis is only 16cm long with 4.2cm dia, is it big to hurt her? Pls.

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  • by zyrblue on November 11th, 2009

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    If you tried it and she said it hurt you may have a difficult time getting her to try it again. I understand that you want to try it again and so you are going to have to build your case for doing so with your girlfriend.

    If she is willing to give it another try EvangelineOFire has pointed you in the right direction but it wouldn't hurt to pick up some books that discuss this as well.

    Hmm is there a "Annal for Dummies" book? Sorry nothing bad intended just kinda caught in my mind.

    Also finger play may be a gentler way to introduce her to this or a very small toy. But as stated before take your time and be gentle, anal tissue is extremely delicate and can be seriously damaged if one is not careful.

    You may also just have to accept that in the end (no pun intended) she dose not care for it and is not willing to do it.

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  • by EvangelineOFire on November 11th, 2009

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    It's too early in the morning for me to think metrically, Lado, but I can tell you this - TAKE YOUR TIME! This doesn't mean it won't hurt, but it will show your girlfriend that you've got her pleasure in mind. Use lots of lube, and use your thumbs or fingers to stimulate her first, stretch her out a LITTLE bit. Again, when you're ready to penetrate, GO SLOWLY. If you feel resistance, stop, breathe and go again when SHE IS READY. DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT shove it in there! That will kill not only the mood but your chances of your girlfriend being open to anal.

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