by growinlove on November 10th, 2009

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What is the best way to ask for a reassurance from your bf without sounding needy? Like when I want him to say how much he loves me? Is there anyway to make it sounds cute rather than being taken as a burden?

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  • by jaykole on November 12th, 2009

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    If you tell him that you love him, there's a bit of an obligation to reciprocate. If he's not the jokey type, he'll almost certainly reply with "I love you, too.", if he really does.

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  • by Athrael on November 11th, 2009

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    Um no, there is no way to demand love without it sounding "sad".

    Mind men are not taught to be all lovely dovey.

    We are trained to keep our emotions in check, we are trained to not be a sissy and talk about love. We are told that we are to provide, defense, protect and be faithful to our mate and that is how we show our love to our mate.

    Women are taught to be in touch with their feelings, are told its ok to be soft and warm and needy (to a point).

    Its the rolls of the genders that unfortunately while they are quite 1800's in nature still survive to the 21st century.

    If you want him to tell you "I love you" more often, then you need to sit down and discuss it like an adult. that means you two, no TV, computer, Phones to distract and you tell him that you need to hear him say it more often.

    He most likely will try, but will forget or even be extremely uncomfortable saying it all the time.

    After all, he ain't no sissy - right?

    ;-)

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