ANSWERS: 9
  • Bail! You can do much better than he, and he won't change for anyone. Don't wast your life.
  • You need to leave. If you won't do it for yourself, think of your son. Do you want your boy to grow up being beaten by this man? I don't care if he's the father or not. You need to go for the safety of yourself and your son. Be strong and get out while you're still in one piece. I wish you only the best of luck.
  • Run. That behaviour is not acceptable. Next time you might not get off with just a shove to the head. You have a son. Think of him too. Best of luck.
  • all that over a lighter? time for you to bail, sweetheart.
  • Saved? Leave him to wallow in his own muck and bail. Your baby has one Momma and thats you.
  • gurl what r you still doing with him??
  • You are asking the wrong question. The right question is 'Why am I still with someone who treats me worse than people treat a stray dog in the street?' Even a stray dog feels a sense of self-preservation and will avoid those who hurt it. Do not spend one more day or night with someone who has absolutely no respect for you and no affection whatsoever for your son. The fact that you are asking the question shows that you don't accept his behaviour as legitimate and that's a good sign. Now make the next move and break it off. It's a lot harder than it sounds, but both you and your son will be healthier and safer for it. Do you have friends or family nearby?
  • Take your child and disappear before the courts become involved. I can tell you from experience that once the courts are involved, his rights are 50-50 with yours, and what's more important is that THE TRUTH DOESN'T MATTER. Get a family member or frined to help you but otherwise go, get out of there, change your name if you can. Just go. Because if you think he's not going to hurt your child, you're wrong. And if you're separated and still living there you will not be able to protect your child. The Child protective services are useless, and he will try to attack you and your sanity. This has happened to me and another girl I know. Take advantage of the fact that you're not married, take the baby and go! Churches and shelters will help.

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