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by Anonymous on November 7th, 2009

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Who should move out of the house, the cheater, or the cheated? she wants her independance, some of the cheating happened at the residence. she does not want anything of ours. she wants me to move out our stuff and find storage for it.

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  • by Jamie on November 8th, 2009

    Jamie

    The cheater. Unless he/she owns the house.

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  • by SIR_Anony is now SIR_Anthony on November 8th, 2009

    SIR_Anony is now SIR_Anthony

    The cheater hits the road.

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  • by ILoveMySteaks ... is thinking. on November 8th, 2009

    ILoveMySteaks ... is thinking.

    The cheater goes OR whoever owns the house stays.

    In this case, if she doesn't want anything, then get on down the road girl! How stupid is it to stay, move everything out, and pay storage just so she can stay in an empty place! Just get a NEW place, that's empty already, and pay no storage ... what, about $3K per year or something?!

    It's MUCH easier for her to git!

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  • by Thumper on November 8th, 2009

    Thumper

    The cheater!!!! Se obviously didn't want what was at home, so she shouldn't want that either. Kick her ass to the curb......unless you really love her and want to work it out, and can look passed it. Good luck!!!!

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  • by Lucky67 on November 8th, 2009

    Lucky67

    My husband cheated first (in my 14 years of marriage), because outside the people and the world taught him to, how to cheat someone, then I learned to cheat from him(on 2002). We still live together because of kids.

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  • by Athrael on November 7th, 2009

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    If YOU cheated, then you need to find yourself someplace to stay - show some remorse.

    If SHE cheated, then tell her that you are the one that has been hurt and you believe that she should move out until the divorce is in court and a judge hears her side and determines her fate.

    If she fails to do so, get a divorce attorney, lay it out to him and have him pursue legal routes to cause her to get her own lawyer or to 'fear' the law so much she moves out.

    Mind this has nothing really to do with 'who cheated' and who didn't, this is more or less the 'rules' of war where the cheated gets to throw up the cheating affair and use it as a 'reason' for everything - from suing for the house to suing for child support.

    It is also a war of 'emotions' where the item on the table (the infidelity) is just one more "pawn of pain" used by BOTH parties as a way to get in digs, to win concessions and all of that.

    "Should" is a relative thing in this matter. I suspect that both sides of the debate can come up with good reasons why the other 'should' leave.

    The Legality of the situation depends on where you live, who cheated on whom and how legal separation and divorce is handled in that state.

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