So last night I got caught with my gf in the shower by her mom, her parent's freaked out on me and now I feel like a total ass, I really like this chick but I have no way of contacting her now, help?
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By the way, she's 16 and I am 17.
If I had caught my 16 year old daughter in the shower with a 17 year old boy, I'd have freaked out too!
If you see her at school, let that be enough for a while. Her parents are going to hate you forever now. Going around her house, and trying to call her will only make them more upset and lead to more trouble for you.
Really like this Chick?? You would be feeling a lot more than just like an ass if it were my daughter. I can only imagine what would go on bewteen me and my daughter. There would be no way in hell I would allow her to ever see you again and hopefully the talk I had with her would get her head out of her ass, and she wouldn't want to see you again either.
As a parent, I see things a bit differently, I would want my daughter to at least ...at least.. have more feelings than "I really like" before she ever thought about getting into a shower with someone, and I would hope she would think a bit more of herself than to allow a guy that just "likes" her lead her into the shower.
Be happy the dad didn't catch you. You wouldn't have made it out alive. And how dumb do you have to be to do anything at her house, esp. with her mom around?
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Some guys...(shakes head)...are so damned stupid.
not good, you really cant expect to win popularity contest ,as 16 and you 17 why would they not freak out ,i really do not no what parents of the girl would be thinking right now and you will find it hard to regain there trust ,really do not no what you can do,
Most think this is so bad but look at the fact of the matter...did you force her into the shower with her arm up behind her back or did the two of you decide on this together and both willing and consentual?
Parents when catching their children in these situations need to remember how they were at 16 and 17 and they would probably like to have done the same.
Rather than being angry or "freaked out" they should have told the two of you they wanted to talk to the two of you when you were finished. Then while talking... calmly...find out if you both were sexually active and were you both being safe about it? Parents may not think their children especially daughters are sexually active but they are in most cases. What they need to do is understand their children and make sure the daughters are on birthcontrol and are having safer sex...they sure are not going to stop them once they start. Give them their privacy and allow them to continue.
Talk to her at school, if you don't go to the same school get a hold of her friends and arrange a meeting, she has to leave the house eventually, i am not considering this stalking, because i am assuming she still wants to see you, her parents are just being dumb, most parents never want to let their daughter grow up, well eventually shes going to whether you wish her to or not.
Learned your lesson, eh? You should stick to video games. As by contacting her, if you go to the same school, thats enough. Don't disobey her parents. +2
Good job it wasn't the other half who caught you! :-/ just getting caught though! Tisk Tisk!! Lol... I'll wager she'll be in touch, you should try to keep as low a profile as possible, at least until the suds have settled! Lol... ;-)
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